I'm probably not going to say anything new but honestly it's hard not to get offended when you read this. And let me tell you it's not the same as a short girl wanting a tall boy because that's a physical preference and in a relationship it's important to be attracted to the other person (plus in most cases that's preference but not a deal breaker). also people have no say in how tall they are, so you saying that short girls are not allowed to be attracted to tall guys just because of their genes?
And let me explain that the reason people are calling you a hypocrite. You're accusing a girl who, in all other aspects you consider perfect, of not taking sex seriously and being gross because she slept with 6 guys which is really not that many, especially considering you have slept with 13. it's not only hypocritical but also sexist since you're saying "that for a girl" sleeping with 6 guys is bad but not for a guy.
honestly if you're not sure whether to keep dating her show her this post and she'll choose for you cause no woman on her right mind would be with with someone who says this.
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... That is such on-the-nose stereotypical hypocrisy I find it hard to believe this isn't trolling, or at least a bait question looking to provoke a specific response.
If for real, I feel bad for both of you. Your hangups about sexuality seem to be preventing you from being happy with someone who's company you otherwise enjoy. If it infringes on your ability to respect her, then yeah, you should leave. I don't agree with the foundation of your opinion, but that won't stop you from feeling that way. In a perfect world you'd accept a more open minded worldview and all that, but it's not a perfect world. If chastity is that important to you, I suppose I wish you luck finding someone you get along with who's been saving herself but won't kill your sex life, since you seem to like sex, just not women who also do. And I wish her luck finding someone who will like and respect her as she is, as I see no reason she doesn't deserve that.
Yes you should leave her, so she won't be with a someone that's a hypocrite. What she did is nothing compared to you having sex with 13 women. Never assume. Those guys probably lied to her so she can have sex with them.
Coming from a virgin. When I was single some of the guys try to say things so I can have sex with them and will then break up with me or stop talking to me because I won't have sex with them.
You slept with twice as many as her and you have the nerve to say she doesn't take sex seriously? Do her a favour and leave her. She doesn't need to be with a hypocrite like you, I'm sure she can find much better.
And if she brings up your 13 other girls? I mean if anyones in a pickle its you especially if she finds out you have that many past girls you have taken to bed. Rather than her getting grilled for maybe not being loyal. For once the tables might be turned around.
If I were in your situation I'd stick with her and find A DIFFERENT reason to break up with her if you need to. Or you might end up just ruining your own reputation if she digs up dirt on you. The last thing you need is an ex questioning if you were cheating on her the entire time you were dating her.
Leave her because she deserves someone who won't judge her with double standards
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You're being a hypocrite. You slept with 13 women, and she's only been with 6. Your number is higher than hers. That's like a woman who's been with 30 dudes rejecting you cause you been with 13, how is that fair? Personally I would leave the both of you cause I don't want to date promiscuous people.
Apply the same logic to yourself; it's even more gross that you've been with 13, more than double 6. She's still willing to be with you so what's the problem? Plus you've increased the body count of 13 women, that will onto new relationships. Should they too not be able to move on with a man because you've been with them first (along with the others they've most likely had)?
You've slept with over double the amount she has... You can't judge if a person takes sex seriously or not by their body count. Could be getting with a virgin who doesn't take sex seriously at all.
Leave her, she doesn't need such hypocricy.If I was a guy, I would not leave her since the only thing that seems to be obstructing this relationship is your double standard. If she's willing to commit and make it a long term thing, and you are the one who left, don't regret it in the future. Man, I wish there was a word specifically created for the the guy version of "sluts". - _ -
Stay with her, if her 6 is gross, then you're more than twice as gross no? You can be gross together! If she's perfect in all the other ways, she perfect for you, who also don't really take sex seriously. :)
I don't get it, you know a girl you like and have a lot in common with, and you're considering leave her because she's sleept with 6 guys before you? That isn't ever that big of a number, and you've been with 13 girls before her so... what's the fucking problem? Are you an idiot?
Oh no. Are you the manlet?
Yeah you should leave the country. Rn. Back to troll land. I hear the women there never get laid for good reason.If this is a big issue, then I think you should leave her. To me if you really are into someone, their past won't matter unless they have a past of cheating or something.
When I date guys, our sexual history usually never comes up. I wouldn't want my sexual history to ruin something good with a guy. I've slept with guys and definitely regretted it.Let me get this straight. You've been with 13 girls, but you're considering breaking up with her because she's been with 6 guys- less than half the number of partner's you'd had?
The bottom line is that if you want to leave her because of this, you absolutely should leave her.D. You're a liar
E. I bet you're not dating a girl at all
F. Eat a bag of dicks neckbeardYes, leave her. She deserves better.
I second what Ayshea said.Why would it be ok for you to have a lot of pertners but not her? That makes no sense. Just makes you a hypocrite. She'd probably be better off without you.
Why don't YOU take sex seriously since you have slept with 13 women?
Why are 13 girls normal for you but if a girl sleeps with 6 guys it's gross? It's not even that much
A guy who's been with 13 girls in the past wants to leave his current partner because she's been with 6 guys before him... LOL is 13 not greater than 6? Quite hypocritical to say.
Lmao, let her go. She sounds like a catch, she can do better than this.
You're a hypocrit. You can't judge a girl and even leave her for sleeping with too many guys (even though 6 really isn't that many, especially if they were all relationships), while you go and sleep around yourself. That's bullshit.
So hypocritical. You should definitely leave her, she deserves a better guy than you
Manwhore wants the virgin Mary what a joke! Leave! She can do way better!
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