guys love freedom and if you give your boyfriend freedom he will more likely choose to be with you (instead), tell him this: "I believe in having a life of our own outside of the relationship. Just because we’re together doesn’t mean we should do everything together. I would love it if you spend some free time with your buddies and do things on
your own. I know you wouldn't cheat on me because I know you're different from other guys and it really makes me feels special to have a guy like you. I trust you with all my heart. love you babe~😙" This will show that you respect him and that you trust him which makes him feel loved and will want to keep you and be with you more 😊❤
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Ultimately, it's not my place to "let" him go to a party- he has the right to go anywhere he wants. That said, I'm insecure enough that the idea of him at a pool party full of mostly girls definitely gives me a pause. It would be nice of him to invite me to go along, and it would also help if he communicated with me while he was there. I don't think my boyfriend would be insensitive enough not to understand why it might make me a little uncomfortable, so I'm sure if he chose to go he would at least be considerate about it. Talk to your boyfriend if you feel uncomfortable, and let him know what he can do to make the process easier on you.
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Oh i won't be happy. I would be pretty pissed actually.
If I didn't want him to go to me honestly it means I don't trust him. Trust and honesty is very important in a relationship, I trust my boyfriend and I would let him go. Plus I don't own him to say what he can or can't do. It's his choice if he wants to go or not.
Yes sure because 1 I don't control him, 2 I wouldn't be with someone that I can't/ don't trust, and 3 it's not his fault if other girls flirt with him. If they keep on when he asks them to stop and he doesn't leave, then I might start to wonder.
My question is why can't you go with him?it's not your choice. let him do what he wants. if he started not allowing you to do things you'd say he's crazy and controlling. if you don't trust him don't date him. other than that let him have his fun. why don't you go out with a few of your friends and have fun while he is out? enjoy life don't be petty and controlling it only ruins relationships
I don't think he'd even want to go but I'd let him if he wanted cuz I don't think his motivation to go would have anything to do with the girls, but rather hanging out with his friends that are there.
Why wouldn't I let him go? Sounds possessive if you ask me. That's basically like saying I shouldn't let him go to the beach either because there are so many people in bikinis
I don't think my boyfriend would want to do that to me. The title of the party alone screams drunk fun in a pool with almost naked girls. I would think drunk sex party and he would too.
I wouldn't have a problem with it. I trust my boyfriend and if I knew he was going with his friends then it wouldn't bother me.
It's not about "letting" anybody do anything, rather trusting that your S/O respects you whether you're there or not.
If you don't trust your S/O, you shouldn't be with them.Well I would wonder why he didn't tell me to come too. Odd.
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