Do girls like when you grab their ass while kissing? Do they feel comfortable?

I am relative new in this relationship dating etc world so I dont have much experience...

My girlfriend and I are for a couple of months together and I wondered what would she think if I grab her ass while kissing.

I wouldn't be ashamed to ask her but I think that she will say that I can do it and that she likes it if I like it...

So do girls feel anything special when you touch and squeeze ther butt or do they let ther men to touch it for their mens pleasure?
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I did it guys! :D She was very happy that I did it. She was smiling al the time and if I moved my hand away she put it back 😂 It was very cute and the kisses were 50% better 😂lol
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It truly depends on the girl, but for most girls, myself included, we like when a guy pulls you into him by your face. So start with one hand on her face. your fingers your kindve cling to her neck, gently. the other hand can either do the same thing or it can wrap around to her lower back. Gradually throughout the kiss you should move both hands to her ass. This shouldn't catch her off guard. You can squeeze it but dont murder it or anything. Like do it with force but not so hard its super uncomfortable when you do this you can kinda pull her closer and pick up the speed in your kiss to make it more kinda hot/passionate. Do this and she shouldn't complain at all. If she does, well then I'm really not sure what kinda girlfriend you have.

  • My boyfriend is obsessed with my arse. Literally obsessed. Always squeezing it when we kiss. Doesn't even matter if we're in public (I'm starting to not care about this too). He'll just bend me over in the middle of the kitchen and start grinding up against it or we'll be walking up the stairs and I'll hear a frustrated moan and then he'll give it a slap lmao. I find it funny more than anything. I don't exactly get any "pleasure" from it. It doesn't "feel good" but knowing he likes it makes me feel wanted and sexy. So I enjoy it in that way.

    • I used to treat my ex like that but she hated the idea of anal and I think that was part of what pushed her to hate it that I did this... Do you like anal?

    • @Downing5m I used to hate anal. I tried it because it was "taboo" and I have the rule "I'll try anything once" when it comes to the bedroom. My ex liked it but we only did it a few times because he knew I hated it and wouldn't bother asking. I probably still would have done it though if he really wanted it. But I got no pleasure from it at all and it was all for him really. My boyfriend loves anal and always asks for it though. His ex never let him try it and I had done it before so I thought why not. I don't know what he did, but with him it was sooo good. I had never found it pleasurable before, but my boyfriend is a bit bigger than my ex. At first it even hurt a little (especially afterwards I swear I couldn't sit down haha). But now it doesn't hurt anymore and I enjoy it a lot. Depends a lot on the position though I think because it still feels a bit weird and uncomfortable sometimes.

  • i dont like it. it feels cheap, ill just move his hands of i dont like what he's doing. but i know women who like it.

    • Thats why I asked do they like it... Because I didn't know if she might feel cheap... By the way I did it yesterday (grabbed her ass) and she was very happy , she didn't tell me but I could see it... how she was smiling and gone crazy hahaha

Most Helpful Guys

  • I am fairly new to the whole getting kincky side of this wonderful world of sex and my ex hated how obsessed with her butt I was.. So I am so glad you asked this!! ;)

  • Usually yes but make sure she's comfortable first ease into it don't just start grabbing it right away

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  • It depends on the girl. You should probably ask your girlfriend to see for sure.

  • LOVE IT

  • I. Love. It. I will straight out tell a guy that I love when a guy grabs my ass. I want them to and I tell them too. It actually really pisses me off when they don't, especially when I've made it clear that it's something I enjoy.

  • Personally I love it.

  • We 100% love it, or I do anyway

  • since she is your girlfriend it is safe to say she will let you and if you doesn't she'll either tell you or move your hand up and you respect that. I love it when my boyfriend grabs mine.

  • I like it, it feels good to me and can heighten the kiss. While you're making out one time slowly move your hand there and see how she reacts

    • Aw see lol

  • yes love it

    • What is it that you love about it? And what dose he do that you love spesificly? :)

    • @Downing5m i dont know what but when he grab my ass while kissing feels so sexy.

    • That's hot! I mean I think that is the appeal... You know I think that it is soft silky curves that men enjoy and women enjoy being sexy for their men! But it seems like grabbing and squeezing bring that to a whole new level.

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  • No. It's hella vulgar. I'm not the guy's toy

  • Yes but dont go too far and grab it too tight as the pain will surely ruin the moment.

  • WHEAT

  • LOVE IT 🍑🍑

  • Yes they like it. But some might not, depends on the girl.