Like others are kind of saying, he doesn't see your friend as someone who is worthy to be in your life because of the drama she has caused. It is pretty low of her to make stuff up like that and a good friend would never do that. Ultimately, at the end of the day, it is your boyfriend you spend your life with, cuddle up to at night, have sex with, get married to and have a family with, not your friend. Therefore your boyfriend should always rank higher than even your best friend. Right now, you should be showing that he means more to you than she does. I don't think you have to cut her out of your life. I think just a cool down period is needed and things can return to normal.
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"He said he isn't gone if I still want to be her friend". So, do you have the option of keeping your best friend and him, or will he break up with you if you choose to keep your best friend? I'm slightly confused. Why would your friend make that up? Did she want to get you into trouble with your boyfriend? Sounds like some friend to me. But anyway, if you truly think she's a good friend after all, the choice is already made: the one that threatens to leave will leave; you won't break up with anybody, so you can have a clean conscience.
And you don't see the guy getting mad about a fucking number a red flag? The fact that she is lying also indicates she not your friend. Your boyfriend is immature. Drop the so called friend. There are people who are honest and trustworthy and good to their friends out there you don't need toxic people in your life. If you boyfriend gives you another red flag you need to decide if you're willing tolerate it or drop him before it becomes more serious.
Be careful of the decision you end up making. Partners that ask their SO to pick between him/her or their friends are control freaks. This usually happens if the said friends can spot their bullcrap then they want that person gone.
Sisters before misters, if you are truly close friends let him go and talk it out with her. Have you spoken to her about this directory?
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Oke, i got it
lets see
your boyfriends is mad at your best friend
best thing is to got to a cafe and talk it out
I don't know how your boyfriend is or your best friend
so like if they are both old let them become great friend
bc she is your best friend and has a boyfriend you should not care about her taking away your boyfriend but as i said best thing to do if they mad go talk it out ik they may not in the mood for it but it really depends of how old they are
if they above 14-15 it could work and if not i guess u should choose who you like better. ik how he is feeling but still he should not say thing like that
its your life girl so you choose.From a relationship coaching lens: Regardless of circumstance, don't ever stay with someone who gives you an ultimatum. It sets the wrong, controlling tone for the relationship.
Now, I do wonder why you'd want to stay with a best friend who spread that?1) Why are you friends with someone who makes stuff up?
2) Why is she talking about you in a bad way behind your back?
Is that a type of friend you want?
In normal circumstances i'd say that he shouldn't have asked you to pick but she doesn't seem like a good friend.I don't tolerate any ultimatums from a girl I'm dating. If I'm issued an ultimatum color me gone.
From what you stated this guy sounds like a dousche bag. Drop him.
Bfs come and go, but true friends always stay. Bros before hos, or in this case gal pals right?Stick to your best friend in this case. She knows a whole lot story about you and blabbed being in friendship, imagine what else would she spread if you're not friends anymore.
And you're a woman, you can get back with your man in no time. Chill :DI understand him completely.
And why exactly do you still love someone who has clearly been lying about you behind your back?Your friend isn't a very good friend then. I'd say stay with your boyfriend, but tell him no more ultimatums. They do more harm then good.
She doesn't sound like a good friend... in this case, I'd dump her.
Well wait for it to blow over or side with your best friend. Never chooses guys over best friends.
He's saying choose who is more important to you decide which you want in your life
Your boyfriend may have a point. That girl seems to be a troublemaker
Tell him that you tossed a coin and bad luck he lost, and your breaking up. Sounds ridiculous doesn't it but its no where near as cold hearted as what he's asking you to do.
You choose your best friend... because no true friend makes you choose like that. Mark my words!
Just continue fucking them both while ignoring the situation. It'll go away on it's own.
A real friend wouldn't lie to you.
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Wow what a friend spreading lies about you
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