My long distance boyfriend wants to hire an escort. Should I even consider it?

RogueGirl
My long distance boyfriend asked me the other day if it would be OK if he hired an escort to take care of his physical needs when we can't be together. We live in different states, and only see each other about once a month, for a few days. He even suggested that I find someone local to me to use to meet my physical needs, if I wanted to. He compared it to going to see a masseuse, and said that it would be purely physical, and that it wouldn't be allowed to interfere with our relationship. He offered to let me help pick out the girl, and said he would never tell me anything about it, to minimize jealousy. My initial reaction was a huge "no" and after talking about it, he agreed it wasn't a good idea. My concern is that he's already used such a service, and is trying to cover it up by getting permission after the fact. He showed me profiles of potential escorts during our conversation. I also worry that this is not the end of this story, and that it will be brought up again. The fact that he could bring it up very casually makes me wonder how much he really cares for me, and I fear that he is going to end up cheating on me. I'm just looking for some outside, unbiased opinions.
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I should add that I'm not comfortable with him going outside of our relationship for sex, and I certainly have no interest in going outside it. Our sex life is great, and we keep things as hot as we can when we're not together, sexting and sending pics. Sometimes I think the constant sexual tension drives us both crazy. I haven't asked him if he's used the service, but I will be asking him soon. And yes, we hope to live closer someday.
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I want to thank everyone for their input. We've talked, and there will be no escort. He says that it was just a fantasy, and he would never go through with it, that it's just too risky. So hopefully this was just a minor bump in the road that we can put behind us.
My long distance boyfriend wants to hire an escort. Should I even consider it?
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