Unless the guy is in turn tracking everybody who follows him and views every person who views his posts... Or you started hitting like on his posts and commenting, how would he know you were stalking him? I have a bunch of people on Facebook and Instagram who are just friends or associates. I have no idea if anybody is "Stalking" me because I don't care enough to check. Hell I got people from High School who I never talked to as friends on FB and Instagram.
Beside it kind of depends on the level if "Stalking" you do. If you just check their posts and profile here and there, I don't see what the problem is. If he didn't want you or others to see his posts then maybe he shouldn't have accepted you or should have made his account private.
I don't see it as a big deal... But know your limits. Don't hide in the bushes peering into his window at night. That's where things get a little weird.
Either way, you can keep going doing what you're doing (nobody is getting hurt and no privacy is being breached) or you can just send the guy a message and lay it out there. It will only go two ways and either way you'll know his interest and can evolve to something better, or be able to move on.
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I'd have to say that regardless of your looks, my ego would be well fed and happy... depending on frequency and duration. If this has been going on for months or multiple times a week, I'd personally worry about mental instability (insecurity, trust issues, etc) but if this has just started I would take it as a compliment, and would love it if she took it from looking, to flirting with me in person. Ideally I'd love it if she took the initiative to ask me out. No matter what I'd take her out at least once to see if we clicked.
Guys are hardly threatened by that. But it's better if you talked to him instead of being a bit creepy
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To some degree I would just find it amusing but there is a limit at which point I would find it creepy. Where that limit is at any given time I can't really tell you but in this case I probably would not care.
I can only guess since I don't have social media and I'm much older than you.
I could see a bit of a mixture. Part of me would be flattered that a girl was interested in me. The other part would probably be a little confused and / or worried. If you're interested, why wouldn't you want to find something in common with me and start a conversation and see how things go? Why be surreptitious about getting to know me?trust me it doesn't feel good. it feels like she is spying on me. i always expected her to come up and talk to me instead of stalking. instead of watching me going places, she would have join the fun with me.
so I hope you go and talk to him instead of stalking. even guys feel awkward being stalked.LOOOOL the (...) I was like "wwait wha-ah ok" XD
If I knew you had a crush on me, I would probably come talk to you, I find the stalking without any words said... freaky.
If I don't know that you were crushing, I wouldn't care, n'or really pay attention to it.First, delete that account and never admit it was you... leaves the suggestion open that someone else did this to you w/o you saying so
Then stalk him another way after a few days IF he hasn't caught on
I would be somewhat flattered but also a bit stand offish until I understood why the cloaking was necessary, else figure this would be the SOP with her going forwardI would think it's cute of her. Try taking to him the next time you see him. Guys love having girls to like them. Don't be ashamed, if he rejects you in real life stop tge stalking, if not, start flirting 😉.
Good luck!I'd find it cute because I'd know the girl put effort into finding more about me and my life which I find awesome. Makes a girl instantly more attractive, when they put effort into something, as long as it doesn't go as far as more than stalking on Instagram.
Depends on if she is hot. ... or not.
It's the difference between me asking her to "meat" or to beat it. Beat my meat... okay... I like the ugly ones too.I thought you couldn't tell who was viewing you on Instagram. Plus, why didn't you just look at their profile while not signed in?
I would wonder why.
Most of my pictures are either outdated or just plain bad. And most of my posts are either political or self-depreciating humor memes. :/Awkward, but rather flattered at the same time. 😊
I wouldn't ask her to go away. I'd ask her to simply talk to me instead. If she agreed, all's good. 🙂kinda creeper status if you can't or dont directly contact them
Happened mutiple times, just ignored her and nothing came of it.
If you are cute, I will be flattered. If not, I will be creeped out. So the true answer actually lies within what you look like.
yeah it's cute lol talk to him
I would kind of feel self concious and hope she didn't judge me too hard
I would find that cute / flattering
I'd be flattered
I would ask why she didn't say something.
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