Why does it seem like a lot of guys like underage girls, or girls who look underage?

I am just wondering. I mean in college I still hear guys saying girls in high school are hot, and not just 17-18 year olds but as young as 14! Also a lot of guys like girls who look underage as well. Why is this. I understand their isn't much age difference between college guys and people in high school, but 14 years old.. come on.
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  • Because there are in fact girls as young as 14 that are pretty good looking. There's quite a few in my school district.

    I mean hell, most put on a lot of make up and tight pants, so they'll look they're 17-18 years old yet you'd never know. Until you find out they're only a freshman/sophomore or you ask/they tell you the age.

    I don't find it weird or sick at all that males find young girls attractive. If the girl was really young like a child, then that would be one thing. But a girl age 13 (assuming she's developed...) to 17? No, because like I said, there are some girls that look older than they are, and are pretty good looking.

    There's a term for girls/guys (usually girls I guess) that are under the age of consent. It's called Jailbait. I turned 18 in March, yet that doesn't mean I don't find girls under the age of 18 attractive. There's plenty of girls age 14-17 that I find either really cute, hot, beautiful, very sexy, etc.

    • Yes nature says when girls are ready not the law some are mature enough to breed at 13 while others aren't until their twenties and in times gone by before laws these young girls would be having babies,but now the law says if a girl is 17 years and 364 days old she's a tiny little innocent girl,but if she's 18 she's fair game.

    • Yes! I'm glad someone shares my opinion. Girls of a young age are so attractive nowadays because they wear clothing that shows off their bodies to the extreme. There is no crime in fancying underage girls, as long as you don't act on it. I'm 23 and fancy like a million underage girls lol.

    • @Grotty - bloody hell, where do YOU live? Somewhere very backward - not far off the Islamic States, judging by your answer... the mathematical part. Average age of consent is around 14.

  • Well I suppose in nature there's no age limit after all there hasn't always been a law that says under 16 is wrong as not long ago the age of consent in Britain was 13,but it all depends on the girl some 14 year olds look like attractive women where as others don't look ready until their twenties anyway they may look hot as you put it,but remain unavailable until the legal age in whatever country they are in,also many 14 year olds do look gorgeous,but often act in an immature way,so it isn't all about looks,but there's nothing wrong with admiring these girls thinking of what they'll be like in the future when their reach adulthood.

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  • Let me ask you a question. If the law said that a minor was considered 13 or younger would you still be saying the same thing? or the law said that 14 wasn't underage. Everything would be totally different it wouldn't be considered wrong or disgusting as some people say. The fact that it is illegal has a huge role playing in it. Some 14 year olds are very mature for there age. Me for example I'm 16 years old and I look 19. I'm also very mature for my age.

    • I guess your right, but I mean I'd still find it weird to date a 14 year old when I'm 21

    • Thats sort of like saying you would feel weird dating a 23 year old when your 30. It is a little different because a 23 year old is more mature and developed then a 14 year old. But if it wasn't illegal then it would be a lot more common and not questioned as weird

    • Even if it was illegal I'd still feel like a cradle robber. I mean it's different when you are older, I mean a 23 year old will have a little more in common with a 30 year old than a 14 year old with a 21 year old

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  • A lot of guys are attracted to young girls (keyword: GIRLS). Society stigmatizes it so guys are less open about it, but honestly if you did a study I do believe that most guys would probably hook up with a young girl if they could get away with it. That's sad because 14 year olds aren't even fully developed and grown ass guys still would sleep with them.

    • That's true.

    • well if you wanna go by developed, then nothing until 25 which honestly makes more sense then 18 because at 25 your brain stops developing or around 25 so in my opinion under 25 drinking smoking sex etc should be illegal.

    • Personally the only female I would have in my life would have 4 legs.

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  • That's funny. When I was fifteen, a senior in my school asked me out. And by senior I mean seventeen-going-on-eighteen and about to graduate.

    It was kind of funny but shocking at the same time.

    I thought I wouldn't have been good enough.

    Good question, because I've been wondering this for a while...

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  • Ive seen hot 12 year olds, girls tend to look their best around high school age. I wouldn't do anything with a girl under 16 (maybe 15 depending on the girl) but you can still appreciate their looks, their fresh (aka perfect skin, eyes, sometimes body and hair) and tend to glow which is nice.

    I tend not to know the girls age till a later time after I've decided she's hot.

  • in case ur wondering... forbidden fruit... and also, younger girls will more often than not fall for some lame 'game'... plus the illusion of them being the 'first'...

  • Not sure. The last underage girl I dated was 17, and that was when I was 16.

  • Honestly I've never understood this. Teens have always been annoying to me and I've always leaned towards women around 25 or older (even when I was a teen myself). I guess it's just the fact that girls seem more... innocent? I don't know, but I've never shared the same sentiment.

  • girls change around 18 years old and I think its for the worse, I think 15-17 year olds tend to be hotter than 18 year olds, a 18 year old girl has a diffrent shape to her waistline and isn't as curvy. around 18 most girls change in their waistline, stomach, breasts, skin texture,even their vagina, their butt gets less perky and round, some is hard to explain but I would get more turned on looking a naked pic of a girl 15-17 than 18 and up equally as attractive for their age. Also a younger girl isn't going to have been laid as much and that makes a big diffrence. A bannana may still be ripe but has been ripe longer(brown spots) and thus won't taste as good.

    • I agree with you.

    • I agree

  • Some people are just more attracted to cute than sexy

  • Well you sound like you're from "over the pond" - ie USA (Canadians would not get so worked up!)
    Now I am aware (I am originally from Scotland) that there are crazy mad ideas in the States about the Age of Sexual Consent - I think it varies by State too - but consider this: consent can vary between (a) age of puberty, which isn't a number, can be anything between 9 and 17, which was the case in Hungary until they changed the law to? 13/14 when they joined the EU
    (b) 12 (Netherlands) but with stipulations on partner age for past 10 years, now normally 14
    (c) Average age of sexual consent 14 - Spain is 13 but France 15 so there's quite a lot of border crossings by French lovers to stay legal!
    (d) the UK is as high as 16 and Ireland is a crazy high 17.
    (e) Islamic countries tend to be TWENTY-ONE Fer Chrissakes, and 90% of those have the proviso that the partners MUST also be legally married!
    The answer to WHY... as asked is that hormones and pheromones are going mental after puberty, telling prospective partners are fertile and ready to reproduce. Now that has got NOTHING to do with LAWS made in whatever country, but EVERYTHING to do with the transition from pre-pubertal to. Adolescent. It is not ÂGÉ either, cos as you should all know, like the differing age of consent in different places, the onset of puberty and the hormonal and pheremonal changes associated with that tells folks, "Hey this girl/boy has become fertile and is really attractive, so let's try to get it together!"
    I am well past the 'big' birthday (the 40th!) but does that mean I can not fancy a girl much younger? My last partner was only 17 and very bisexual (90% lesbian, she said) but hell, our attraction was undeniable - and no, it was NOT a one-off - & I learned that gay girls are ten times better at sexual stimulation and its "inevitable conclusion" than ANY straight girl. I am a "giver" rather than a "taker" & so is (s) he - she does have a bit of gender dysphoria - so please, the age thing is a red herring for those who deny the mature the right to express themselves sexually.
    My 'S' introduced me to one of her psrtners, a very slim and "boyish" 13. She suggested all 3 of us get together soon for a "dirty weekend" as she put it. Now that would not be quite legal here just now, but neither is their ongoing sexual relationship -, straight and gay folks are both restricted by law here to one of the highest âgés in Europe at 16. But ask me if I am attracted to her (at 13) and I would have to say, "Jeez, yes!" and I am jealous that S has her on such a regular basis and I can't.
    I haven't broken laws in any country I have been in. If you forget a gay experience I had when I was 13 and suffering all the hormonal/pheremonal things inevitable once you hit Tanner Stage 2-3 (look it up if you don't know. It explains a lot about maturation of body and mind!
    Just enjoy your sexual life without feeling guilty about consensual relations, folks, be you LGBT or straight or unsure - many people do not realise fully their prédilections until they are 16 and officially, legally adults!

  • I'm probably older than most here (over 30) but I still find it difficult to not be attracted to high school girls (assuming they are well developed). I have zero urge to act, but I would consider myself a hebephile. I don't know if I was born this way or if my lack of sexual experience/girlfriends as I was growing up. Just my two cents,

  • Think about this for a moment, why is finding someone of a certain age appealing and beautiful considered sick and disturbing when you reach a certain age? If those things really are sick then shouldn’t they always be considered sick? If something is wrong it is always wrong, and if something is not wrong then it is never wrong, things do not become wrong or right just because your age changes, but then people will say that it is wrong because she is too young and does not know what she is doing and you are taking advantage of her. Well if she does not know what she is doing then I guess she should not be allowed to be with anyone period, but nonetheless she is permitted to be approached by people her own age, but not an older fellow because suddenly she does not know what she is doing, and you are taking advantage of her even though you are doing nothing that would be defined as taking advantage of someone. People like to keep minors with minors and adults with adults when it comes to starting a relationship. But honestly it should be the opposite. You can develop a much stronger relationship with someone if you begin to make a connection with them when they are younger, but it usually works best when an older guy gets with a younger girl because young boys in most cases are just so immature, but most girls mature faster plus do not need to mature as much or as fast anyways because the men are supposed to play the role of being a leader full of wise decision making. Young girls are more emotional when they are younger which can lead to a stronger bond if you treat her in the right way. This is why it is better for a girl to find a potential life partner when young and why it should be an adult guy. Of course the man should be introduced to the girl’s father or mother first and have their approval to make sure it is not a boy in a mans body, but a real man full of wisdom, kindness, and a leader. All you need is a good man that the girl likes that is approved by her family. This whole age thing is just a way of separating people. If you have a brand new pilot would you partner him with another newbie or with an experienced and wise pilot?

  • Because pedophilia is not only common but encouraged in our society. Men are overwhelmingly attracted to the idea of a child who doesn’t know any better. It’s why virgins are so fetishized. When I was in college, freshman and sophomore boys couldn’t wait to go back to their hometowns and be the “college man” so that younger girls would find them more interesting. Pedophilia in dating has mostly to do with power dynamics, the younger the girl, the less power she is perceived to have, the easier a target she will be for men who want someone to bend to their every will. While men (let’s say 20s or 30s) could date women their age, they would have to deal with the fact that these women have been around the block just like them and are not as willing to follow their every whim. Now some guys will just look for a woman who is more sheltered or less emotionally mature, but if you date someone who’s generally younger, the odds of her fitting that description goes up. I would hope that it’s less about actually being attracted to children and more about the power dynamics, but either way it’s pretty fucked up.

  • They are not feminist yet, open friendly, sweet and fertility is strong.

    Why does it seem like a lot of guys like underage girls, or girls who look underage?
  • I am in my friend hu hymn m. I wish. _.

  • I think it also has something to do with a guy's natural desire to want to protect his significant other. The smaller and more vulnerable they same, the more likely they are to need that protection.

  • wow you are all disgustustig pervert pedophiles and should get castrated. Hope you never breed

    • and you should get your ovaries removed so you never teach a child your biased opinions.

    • Hi, I think you are over reacting on this topic. Seriously, instinctively males find females nice to look at, it’s not a choice, admiring females isn’t an evil thing, it’s natural.

    • Time to start burning down these wicked feminists!

  • ok, I may sound like a pig here, but its the only way to respond to the question.

    older women =used goods= sloppy seconds

    younger women=almost now=untouched=untainted

    if you can afford a new car, why settle for a used one?

    • Yeah, you do sound like a pig! LOL!!

  • that is sick-- and not right

    • how is it sick? you have to remember an 18 year old is just leaving that age range so they probably are still attracted to the same thing as when they where 15-17