Guys, I have a girlfriend, but I want to fuck other girls?

[jermainyrn]

Why do i feel like i want to fuck other women even though i have a girlfriend? Does it mean i dont love her? We have been together almost 2 years and honestly she's wifey material. Why is it that everytime i see an attractive woman, i think of fucking them? Its such a strong urge, but i ignore it. Am i becoming to comfortable? I think i would enjoy sex with another woman, but i know emotionally i would never invest. I really want to know why im having these feelings? I dont cheat and i dont want to leave her either.

[ak666]

Honeymoon phase is tapering off. It happened to me too after I started living together with my girlfriend who then became my wife.

I think that's just normal, at least for some of us. I have no idea how to stay in honeymoon phase indefinitely.

Your natural state is to find all sorts of women sexually attractive. That switch only flips off temporarily at best, when you're totally intoxicated with a girl.

That said, for me the honeymoon phase is not completely dead. It now comes in waves. For example, when I go on business trips overseas, I'm already missing my wife like hell on the airplane. When I come back home, I can't wait to undress her. It's like seeing her naked for the first time again when we first just started dating, and it's so exciting like that and I get intoxicated with her again for a week or two following.

Similar thing happens to me, though to a lesser degree, when we go on vacations together.

It's impossible to control where you get an appetite as I see it. All you can control is where you eat. To avoid cheating, best thing is to keep a distance from girls who are getting too close.

[Brindale]

You're just horny; keep it in your pants and keep it there for your wifey

[thecoolone99]

of course you want to fuck other women your a guy and above that you'r a human and that means your girlfriend thinks about other guys to it's normal

[Anonymous]

Your wife probably wants to fuck other guys but your are in her way.