Really? After going through all the fiasco of marriage and labelling... and females wonder why males dont wanna get married... you beg before marriage and have to beg after? for something as simple as pics or cam chat?
you are lucky im not your husband... you made a contract with me... saying no is a breach of it, and its perfectly legal to find someone else to do it for me. And then you can blame yourself after. Next time, you either do it, or know someone else will.
I can understand if its some ridiculous request, but for pics and skype?
im sure you have taken pics before and been on camera before with friends or something but this is your Husband.
Smh... more reasons i dont wanna get married. Cuz shit like this will drive me insane.. you were happy as fuck to take the ring though.
Listen to your friend.
If you cheat simply because your wife doesn't want to send you nudes then what does that say about you? You're a disgusting, entitled, asshole. Just because you marry doesn't mean you own her and she's supposed to just bend at your every command. Women are human beings who are their own individual people with feelings. Haven't you ever thought why some women don't want to get married? Because of shit men like you who makes excuses to cheat. Always being entitled, ungrateful, and forcing your own expectations onto her just because she refuses to do ONE thing. PIG. If you want control then get a pet.
No means no you pervert. Deal with it or die alone.
Yes, he phrased the question wrong.
He should have said "Would you rather have me wank off to pics of you or some random porn I just downloaded off the net?"
That should make things clearer. Happy to help!
I'd prefer he watch porn.
If you treat women like they owe you something don't be surprised when she sees it as a chore and the passion dies. Men like you should just stay single and die alone because y'all are so entitled. It's scary how many men on the Internet think like you. Just angry and bitter like someone hurt you and now you want to blame the world for your problems. Get over yourself.
So, you would prefer he watch women he doesn’t know to find sexual fulfillment? Eventually, guess what he’s going to do when he’s with you? Ask you to do the same things, or imagine you as someone else while he’s with you. There are other ways to satisfy this desire of his. Porn…another woman objectifying herself for money so you don’t have to…not the way.
It's ok if you feel uncomfortable sending him nudes. You should never do anything you're uncomfortable with, but it will spice up your sex life while he's away . lol
If he'd cheat coz you won't send him nudes then your trust in him is totally misplaced. That's a lame excuse for justifying cheating.
Surely you can trust him more than your friend gives him credit for. She obviously has a low opinion of him. Trust your own judgement of your husband, not your friends. It sounds so silly what she said to you
Well he's your husband. Sending nudes to a stranger on internet/guy you recently met etc is one thing and sending nudes to husband is another. Are you afraid that if phone is lost or theft, those nudes will be misused? In that case request him to delete them after a while. But not sending nudes to your husband is too much
Well why are you married if you are not comfortable with him? I'd do it, if he was my husband I wouldn't have a reason to not trust him. Sounds like you guys don't have much of a sex life already since you say he travels a lot, can't blame him for wanting a sexual relationship with you, you are married duh
Have a Skype sex with him, he's your husband, it's good that he wants you to do this, it means he won't cheat when he's away. You'll probably enjoy it. If not your husband who are you gonna try these things with? He's the closest person.
I mean , you should make your marriage more interesting, try it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well he is a man, don't be naive. They need a sexual outlet somehow, if it's not you he's looking at it'll be someone else, and soon after his temptations may lead him astray. It's got nothing to do with if he loves you enough, you have to do your part in the relationship. That's what marriage is about.
Best thing Skype sex.
I advice u and him talk about it and see if possible u go with him on these trips.
It is not wrong to send nudes coz u should have trust , he is ur husband.
But let's say he lost his phone
Omg?
So ;) best thing not recorded stuff and live feed of u 2 masturbating is good for both
no i don't think it's wrong. it's your choice... your husband, if he is at all a good partner will not cheat or leave you because you don't send him nude photos.
why won't you consider sending him sexy pics?
You do whatever makes you comfortable.
Uh, no? Why is that ridiculous? I don't care who the man is, husband, fiance, boyfriend, I personally find nudes distasteful and weird. Not sending them to him doesn't mean you don't love him and if he starts cheating on you over something that simplistic then he's not worth your time anyway. You're not being ridiculous at all.
No, it's not wrong if you refuse your husband for this. In fact he is being very inappropriate in making such a request, its wrong on his part.
Yea, he's craving you. I mean what is he supposed to do?
That literally sounds like being trapped in a fucking box lol
I would maybe Skype sex him but I would never send pics
Try it for once and if you don't like it then stop it as he is your husband then he will understand you, if somebody leaves you just because you cannot send nudes or have Skype sex then that guy is a looser and you don't need such jerks in life.
I think it's totally okay to feel uncomfortable and not want to send nude pics. I don't think cheating has to do with getting pics. That's a terrible conclusion.
I don't know whether he'll cheat or not but you outta really consider sending them. I mean, what exactly is the problem anyway? You should actually be glad that your husband wants to fap to you and not to something else.
To each their own, I guess.
Maybe you could meet him half way? Like I'd hope my wife or girlfriend would break some rules a bit...
are you crazy in bed?
No? Not really.
so the sex life at home isn't, by your comment, that great. you also refuse to send him nudes, as your wife, to spice up the sex life. not looking very good don't you think?
as his wife*
It's your body, your choice. If you say no, he needs to accept it.
Wtf he is your husband lol. I think you're friend is right and you're being ridiculous.
why not hey already seen you naked so what's the problem you trust him don't you? since you can't have sex while he's away I think the least you can do is send him a pic whats wrong with that? you should be happy his misses your body that much wouldn't your rather him look at you then some girls on the Internet?
well he is your husband... i think that you should trust him on that (if you think he is trust worthy to you) and do it..
Yeah he might wander off if he's away a lot. But porn should do it. He just wants to be intimate with you, a real life person in real time whom he loves.
I don't know that this would lead to cheating... but most things like that happen during business travel so be careful. Yes, you should prob loosen up a bit. It's too common these days and just a way many people stay in touch sexually. If you are worried just don't include any with your face...
I think your being wise. How many husbands/ wife's or boyfriends / girlfriends have sex on Skype or Webcam and later regret it? No your not being ridiculous
your being cautious of what your doing. I would never ask a girl to have sex
on Skype or Webcam with me. If i truly love her why would i ask that of her?
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