There's no flirting or love/sex talk in their texting. No emotion at all to see at least not from the man's side. The woman is very open and easy in her texting. Lots of LOLs and awwws and emoticons. She's just there, listening. Lots of childish banter between them. Her husband and the man's partner are rarely mentioned apart from when there's a reason for it. The man says some negative things about his partner, a few things that have irritated him about her. No name calling but "Partner is always doing x" Not major things the partner has done wrong, just minor irritations. He also overshares personal information about her/their relationship. The other woman just lets him say these things, she doesn't challenge him about anything.
They're just friends apparently. Yes, the woman was still obsessed with the guy even for a while when he was first dating his new partner but she got over it eventually and now they're friends. When confronted by the man's partner the other woman starts to shit-stir and tell her things she didn't know. This causes huge drama. Neither one wants to stop contact either, despite the ongoing drama and pain it's causing the guy's partner. She is not sure what to do, apart from tell the woman's husband or leave.
Would you consider this an emotional affair, given the previous history and ongoing secrecy? Even though there's no obvious flirting or sexual goings on between them?
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