Do girls have it easier than guys?

Question

Women are naturally more attractive (easier to find a partner), biologically its proven that their brains have more neural connections (smarter), Socially although they have some challenges too (although that is changing as a result of gender "equality" movements) they have a lot of advantages too such as when moody its acceptable for them to cuddle each other which is a big nono for men. The biggest con I often hear about women is probably pregnancy and marriage but from marriage, women get emotional/financial security, etc, from pregnancy the feminine and natural joy of children, to be cherished. What do men get? To protect, to provide, yes, which makes them happy-but for them, it's mostly work. The incentive? Sex. Yes, its frustrating during our periods (cramps are no joke) but its not exactly a daily thing and quite a small price to pay in return for a bundle of joy I guess, and the child is automatically given to the mother and the husband is alone during a divorce... Yes, politically the ones who "dominate" the scenes are guys... but thats becuz the girls CHOOSE not to vote women into office (from the statistics on US Presidential elections) and look at women leaders around the world. Its not as if its guranteed that women leaders do a better job than men right? Like the south korean scandal. What I mean to say is yes, both genders have it rough, but I personally feel that guys have it worse... what do y'all think?

PS: I quoted an earlier users comment about the marriage part that got me thinking about this. Thanks :)

PS: I quoted an earlier users comment about the marriage part that got me thinking about this. Thanks :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

well there's circumcision for starters. men do not have the choice over their bodies that women do have. it is proven to remove quite a bit sexual pleasure. this may leave a man jealous of women for the rest of his life. he has sex with women but he will never be able to feel the same amount of pleasure as them all because of his own parents. it is stigmatized so men pretend they are okay with it.

men also suffer from masochism much more than women do. men are more likely to break their back over years of hard labor and at the end they pride themselves in their own self destruction. they become bitter old men because of this.

men are regarded as the standard. if a woman does better than a man in sports for example its because the man is too weak, not because the woman is strong. if you are in a weak period of your life which everybody goes through people abandon you because men aren't supposed to be weak. if you are able to solve your problems these people try to get back into your life because you are strong again.

and then there's feminism. i wouldn't say feminism has been all bad but as a young man today it is pretty hard to ignore the contempt many women have for men. you always hear how their dad is different or one in a million and so is their boyfriend or husband but all other men are bad with exception the men like her dad and boyfriend/husband.

but then if you do excel in sports, your career, family life, etc. and you are able to make good use of your talents you are more respected for it than when a woman would do the same. when it comes to society men have to make it or break it, there is nothing in between.

vladz · Accepted Answer

Statistically and collectively, yes. Realistically and individually, we're about the same. One must understand that a guy can be born more attractive, smarter, and more emotionally aware than the most intelligent, attractive, and emotionally intelligent woman ever born, and vice versa. This makes it clear that it isn't worth trying to compare any groups of people, as we are all just as likely to have these traits as eachother. Perhaps the fight is more with the way chance and statistics work, but honestly, statistics are pseudo-science when applied to anything outside of the realm of black and white.

bro25 · Answer

Girls can have only fans and make money. But male nudes are "disgusted" "low grade" "rude" "perverted". As a man i can't truthfully say women think they understand men but truly dont. Many cases of accused rape because men are "animals" some are and some aren't. There are men on the daily that get accused and end up killing themselves because 1. Its shameful 2. Everyone will hate you whether or not it is true 3. it really messes with mental health. I had a friend that was accused and everyone knows the girl lied. Now at first he was a gentleman but since then he cannot trust women. Why did it have to get to a point where sexes can't trust each other? Here's why. Women are excused for making false claims and teach their daughters. Then it leaks into society and makes it ok. Example accusing abuse of any form is ok for women. I agree but when it is false its ok because you only accused him he didn't actually do it. Fuck his job, goals, future relationships and his mental health. There are quite more cases of domestic abuse from women too but the media doesn't talk about it. Its only talked about when a man does it. Lets look at another factor that the author of this post mentioned already. Child support and custody. i also have another friend and his mom was a drug addict, alcoholic and neglecting mother. Yet on the other hand his dad fed his kids, was not addicted to alcohol or drugs, put them in school, provided needs, and taught valuable lessons and structure. Why couldn't he keep his children? Women have the upper advantage in that situation of children going to a certain parent. And for anyone ready to call me a sexist there are other situations where males are in favor over women its vice versa just different situations. Men dont always understand women either. But to sum it all up as much as girls like to think they know about men or what its like being a man they don't. Assumptions are made and questi ok ns are non-existent. Some girls assume its easy for a man to ask a girl out or be rejected but the honest truth is we stress out about those things which is sometimes dependent upon the situation that it takes longer for a relationship to start, marriage, children, etc. All i want is for both parties to ask more questions because then when we understand and communicate we can be a even stronger human race right now the human race has many civil problems but if we got to understand each other there could be repairs and grow stronger together. Ok have a good day🤪

ReformedBetaCuck · Answer

Since men and women literally and biologically complement each other we eat have our different hardships. Men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes and in fact if you add jail statistics, men are more likely to be raped. The hardships are not comparable

RichTheC · Answer

The statistics on divorce/child custody, homelessness, prison time and suicide probably speak for themselves.

MaazSaleem · Answer

I think both genders have their share of Rough..  it really doesn't depend on the gender, it change from man to man and woman to woman.

Ken716 · Answer

Not really I've never had issues finding a girl or good job so i guess it comes down to looks

Anonymous · Answer

That's basically always been the case

blondfrog · Answer

In some ways in other ways men have it easier.

Amitsurana · Answer

easy as a pie..

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