Not trying to be rude here but: you want an attractive girlfriend (fair enough) but you aren't willing to work on yourself to make yourself more appealing? Doesn't that seem... slightly contradictory?
Don't get me wrong, no one has to change their appearance if they don't want you. By all means, bank on someone just accepting you completely, but also accept that this might entail you not ending up with the most ideal female. Yes, there are conventionally attractive people who date non-conventionally attractive people, but cutting past the fairy tale fluff and you'll find this isn't a commonality.
So your options are: Lower your standards, keep doing what you're doing, or try to improve. It's all about what you make it.
This isn't a weight issue; this is a self-worth issue. Girls are going to pick up on that you don't value or respect yourself, so why should they?
This isn't the same thing as some dummy saying "be confident", because that doesn't help change your mindset at all and solves nothing.
You're going to need to work on your mentality first and more so than simply your body if you're going to find yourself the right mate.
Looks don't fly for girls as much as it does for guys. Our programming is far too different. I've seen more than enough plain or unattractive guys with attractive partners because they have the right attitude. Look into this more because I can't write a novel for you. But hood luck, mate.
If your apperence is what you're worrying about, you're always allowed to go on diets or exercise more.
But I just think you haven't found the right person yet, I don't think it has to do with anything related to you.
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If you're going to criticise yourself like that, it will be hard for people to look at you differently. You got to change your mindset, attitude and start valuing your self worth. And if you plan on exercising, do it for yourself, not anybody else.
First if all, use some damn punctuation. Second, if you're tired of the way things are, do something about it instead of crying. That just makes you even more unattractive
I think it's a more than just you're looks, it would appear you have a self image issue that you should address. Have a poor image of self is a big turn off for anyone. Gorgeous our not.
Holy shit you need a facelift fat motherfucking loser! Never kissed a girl women must think you are so fucking disgusting it's bad man I'm just telling you the truth sorry
be confident ( I mean a fucking confident ) and you will see a lot of girls around you
Yes you are ugly and you'll die virgin now stop posting same fucking question again and again
You can only date really fat or super ugly looking like crooked dirty teeth geek girls and shit you are not the best looking man I've seen to say the least!
You look like a funny guy and I'm sure you'll make someone happy someday, fate will intervene
This is not you.
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