We are in a long distance relationship so maybe that plays a part, but like if he talks about other girls I get jealous, or like if he has girls on his top friends on MySpace it bothers me..
Why?
number 1: being in a long distant relationship, its going to bring up some questions as to how much you actaully trust someone
number 2: you need to understand that having friends of the opposite sex while dating someone is healthy
number 3: you have to really ask yourself if you trust him enough as to where he wouldn't cheat on you
you also need to decide if the stress you get from him talking about girls and seeing them on his "top friends" on his MySpace page is worth being with him. how long of a "distant" relationship is this? how often do you see each other? how does he talk about the girls when talking to you about them? does he talk more about you and how much he misses you or is this just all he talks bout with you when on the phone?
he should be interested in what you're doing, how work is, or school, or summer classes, or whatever, how you are, how your day went...rather than speaking of these girls he hangs out with...if he takes a higher interest in what you're doing and how you are then I wouldn't worry...but if he's always talking about the crazy party last night and met this girl and blah blah then id be worried...if its just a friend he talks about now and then, then sure that's ok...just really think what his intensions are and his "priorities" then you can decide what to do with your relationship
Love and trust go hand in hand. You claim that you love him, well if you don't trust him...
I think girls that do this are to scared that their man will leave them and they won't know what to do with themselves. You can't be scared to walk a way from a man.
For example, if you knew that computers, cell phones and tv's were gonna be banned at the end of week, you would suck up soooo much time with your stuff just to get the most out of it. This is the same for you man. You're scared you are gonna lose him so you try to pull him in by being more "concerned" with what he is up too. Believe it or not we look at this as clingy. When a girl pays attention to your every move to try to "catch" you doing something, that you shouldn't be doing(according to her).
That's not being overly protective. That's being concerned. Especially since you're in a long distance relationship you're just worried about whether you are still the number one person in his life or not.
It's normal to be a bit jealous, but unless if he starts acting like he's more than just friends with the other girls it really shouldn't be a problem.
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