hun, you did it for the same reason I would have. I have a pretty terrible habit of giving people a second chance. you see a glimmer of hope in the situation and jump to it without really thinking it through. after you explained this situation, I think you are much better off without him. any person who uses you like that certainly does not deserve you. don't blame yourself, you didn't do anything wrong. you are only human. and it is simply the error in human nature that caused this to happen to you. he did that to you because he is a prick. a male chauvinist pig. I know it hurts, but the best thing you can do is the keep your chin up and if he calls or text you or anything, either don't answer, or just tell him that he doesn't deserve the time of day from you.
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First,no matter what he does,you must to be a virgin FIRST.
Second,I don't know such a person needs a name:womanizer?
It seems that he forgets you.He hurts you,maybe one day,you need to hurt him.(but it's not a good way)
If he didn't know you did lots of good things to him,maybe he is selfish.He only knows what he only himself wants.If he never cared about you,I think...
If he hurts you all the time,MAYBE it's not good for you to still love him.
Good luck,I think I'll never forget what you said.it also teaches me lots of things,thank you.
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What he did was abusive, He obviously does NOT care and respect you. Abusers will always abuse you as long as they can see that you still care about them. So in order for it to stop, you need to get rid of this person ASAP. I know, its hard because he's your first boyfriend, but you gotta look up for yourself FIRST. Do NOT let him walk all over you, because if you let him, he will take advantage and abuse you more. Remember this, If you don't respect and love yourself, then you cannot expect everybody to respect and love you. Show this guy that you're strong, smart, independent woman and you will NOT put up with his behavior. KICK HIM TO THE CURB.
When men behave this way its really because of themselves... there was not anything you could have done. it is not your fault. this man sounds abusive and disrespectful. someone who loves you wouldn't treat you like that. this kind of stuff happens to many woman... i believe is due to lack of education on dating and choosing the right man if you know who you are and how to draw boundaries and you take your time getting to know someone you can protect yourself from these type of disrespectful men. i think you should speak to a therapist and find out the deeper underlying issues that led you to be with a man like this and also to help you cope with the emotions that result from these situations. im really sorry this happened to you but you need to know its not your fault... you did not deserve to be treated like this or disrespected and not every man is that screwed up inside
He only did that because it's your fault. You're a female and you had to satisfy him. But since you didn't your job (giving anal sex to him) while dating, he had to force you for that. Just learn your lesson for the next relationship and move on.
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