If a guy is pulling back and testing you, something may be wrong. You know that classic line that ticks people off, "It's not you, it's me", in this case applies. It's honestly him. It may be something completely not related to your relationship that's dragging his overall demeanor down. Guys go through cycles where they pull away. They don't like to talk about things, and instead need time to sort things out on their own. If this is the case, once he solves his own problem (i.e. a work issue) things will generally mend themselves.
Another option would be that he truly is insecure about your relationship. Unless he's a rarity and likes to talk about feelings, I would possibly try to get him to decode his own attitude. Guys generally love to solve problems, so I would present it in a way that he's helping you solve a relationship problem for a girlfriend or co-worker of yours. If he's generally good about portraying his feelings, then I would lay the cards out on the table.
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Yes, he's insecure, and maybe..guilty about something. You need to have a long talk about his behavior right now. Make him tell you what's bothering him, because something IS and this will only get worse.
Maybe past girlfriend have ruined him for you, he might be testing you see how you react in different situations, what you range or tollerance for things are...
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