What is the best country(s) to find a loyal, unselfish, caring women?

I know that any country in the world you can find a good woman. However from my experiences with traveling, foreign friends and meeting women from other cultures...western women (ESPECIALLY AMERICAN) have a tendency to be the most self centered, confused, miserable in the entire world. Now don't blast me for generalizing, cause they are plenty of decent American girls out there. But do we really have a larger percentage of what I described above. I feel like the odds really play against me living in this country since I'm male, Caucasian

and a "clean cut" guy. I see lots of women with scumbags cause they confuse that with bad boys.

I say all this because I want a serious relationship with a good woman. I really want a wife and kids someday. I want something real. I have been played over and over again by women who "want what they can't have". You bitches giggle about it, but coming from a guy...is it really that funny? ha (cough).

So my question: have any of you guys found happiness with a foreign girlfriend and/or wife? I heard the ukraine, brazil and thailand are good countries for single white western men.

I'm not just talking about pure sex anyway folks. Actually from what I saw if you aren't "entertaining enough" to american girl...you get diddly squat anyway. They are more worried about being "excited" by some comedian...total badass...etc than
actually being "safe". Find a "safe" guy is too boring. Where in cultures it is absolutely necessary (women are happy to have a man who won't beat them). But I not looking to get laid. I'm looking for a women who APPRECIATES men and masculinity
And doesn't look at them as a means to their own boundless ends...


Most Helpful Girl

  • LMAO its all american women's fault. western women are the scourge of the earth! find you a 3rd world mami who has no concept of being treated respectfully and was basically raised to be a 2nd class citizen..that's the ticket! that way when you criticize her and treat her like crap she won't know any better, plus a foreigner probably has no knowledge of resources so when you start to abuse her she won't be able to call for help.

    ok, enough sarcasm. but seriously, instead of blaming an entire culture of women, have you tried evaluating yourself and seeing either what it is you can improve about yourself, OR thought maybe you are going after the wrong type of girl in america? if you can't get it right in america do you really think finding a woman who just wants a green card and an american life will really make you happy?

    • I've been to thailand and dated a girl out there. No she wasn't a prostitute. We meet at a kickboxing camp.

      There was A LOT less bullsh*t out there. A lot less confusion. There were plenty of other major problems though.

      I think all western women need to travel and they will come back home with a new appreciation of how spoiled they are in this culture.

      Remember what I said. Not ALL american girls are this way. But A LOT are. The odds are against me here in the dating dept.

    • majority of American woman are just idiots. Like seriously? a green card? you should get one and maybe you'd word things better.

What Girls Said 6

  • Go 2 Antarctica

  • I think that you should go to countries like Bulgaria to find beautiful modest women.

  • in my opinion i can still suggest to meet filipina women. because i knew a lot of filipina who are not materialistic, sweet, loyal and Family oriented. I am not saying this because I am a filipina i am just sharing my opinion. I am in a long distance relationship right now With my boyfriend and we're already Three years and still counting. and he knew that he is really my first boyfriend ever. Many filipina are really committed. just make sure not to get a filipina who's working in a Club or prostitute. i knew a lot of filipina who are also in long distance relationship like me,, i can still tell you long distance relationship will really work for those People who really love each other and for those People who believe in love. that's really matter the most.. even i'm quiet disappointed to him for doubting my love before because of the stories about divorces in holland. i forgave him. and right now i am trying to get a citizenship so that one day i can marry him and he will not say anything that i just marry him because of the staying permit and i will try to make him the happiest man to make him feel regret for doubting me :P he didn't know how much i love him.

  • Stop looking for the perfect girl and leave it to chance encounters... What you're feeling is very real but sometimes when we want something so badly we tend to get in our own way. It WILL happen. most likely when you least expect it :P

    • Well since you are a women I bet you have men approach you quite often. I don't have that luxury that many of you women take for granted. It has been ten years and miss right has NOT found me. It's not getting any easier.

      I'm not saying she isn't out there...she is. But I feel my chances of finding her in the US isn't as good.

  • hmm that's really interesting. I guess people in our society have evolved into messy people. I lived in asia for 10 years and moved to america and I've been living here for 10 years. the way people interact in relationships are so different. americans ( I do consider myself this) are less conservative and really into sex and stuff like that. whereas, asian countries stick with the tradition and stay moral.


What Guys Said 9

  • I've heard great things about Aussie women from Marines who went on Pacific MEUs. The men there are so outnumbered by women they them like trash, so they LOVE American men
    I used to keep in touch w one and she was one of the nicest most sincere people I've talked to.

    Added bonus: that hot accent

    I've heard similar about Russian women but don't know how much weight that holds true to

  • I came across a reported done by Durex indicating that 60+% surveyed females in Thailand admitted having an affair while in a relationship. I agree that some culture/country high a higher rate of fidelity, but I don't think that is down to race, I believe it's lot more to do with finance income, social trend/acceptance, technology, etc.. You better off just focus on stuff you are in control of, like working on yourself, be a better listener, be kind, be forgiving, have real communication, make sacrifice and commitment... Looking for the answer outside your control is ineffective and stupi. My girlfriend cheated on me twice in a 7 year relationship - but I don't there is any right and wrong. Just consider myself lucky I didn't tie the knock with her, and always believe there is some one better out there.


  • The best relationship I had that lasted for 8 years was a good woman from Philipinnes. She's devoted, loyal, understanding, and caring.
    But we parted ways since I was immature that time. :(

  • Anonymous, I don't want to be abusive, I just don't want to be cheated on. American women are repulsive on the inside. 30% of women on Tinder are married! Don't criticize men who want are just looking for a faithful relationship. That just goes to show you how messed up American women are. "You don't want to be cheated on? You're abusive". Give me a break.

  • Super rare to find a girl in USA who is loyal and faithful. Don't waste your time here (USA). I would suggest Asia and Middle East, I personally believe those areas would have a higher percentage of finding a girl who is loyal, faithful, honest, and appreciates "family". However, keep in mind that you could find girls whose background are from those areas who happenes to live in USA. Basically if you want to settle down and be happy and have PEACE, then go for Asians (Cute) or Middle East (Exotic)... I knew from beginning that Amarican woman, were fake... but am very disappointed from Latinas too.. they just love having more than one guy simultaneously lol... Europeans tend to be two face.. I have spent many years in Russia, super hot girls.. totally girlfriend material, absolutely not wife material. Again, anything stated above is my personal opinion, which comes from experience. Good luck on your journey of finding the "one"

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