injured my back and knee (I don't know who's pain is worse - he thinks his. It's not a competition for me).
ever though I am tired and busy I make time for him. Try to let him know I am thinking of him while apart ( our jobs are different days and hours, so are lucky to see each oter 1 hr per week).
he rarely answers my text, but now acts hurt
that I stopped texting him. I reminded him he didn't text either and he said he was too busy.
i'm not asking to be the center of his world. Just somewhere on his priority list. I need to know I mean something to him. I know he loves me in his own way and he tell me he is just bad at communication and has been his whole life. He tells me I am right when I call him out on rude behavior like not bothering to answer me or forgetting a date. He may even step up for a week, but the starts to slide.
how do I get him to realize this is important to me?
how do I get him to wake up and step up?
I'm not asking for wine and roses (though a romantic gesture would be nice), just a little effort.
am I being silly? Asking for too much? Being to demanding?
I don't want to be the needy girlfriend, but I don't want to be the door mat either.
help me out here! Tell me what you think.
Give me some ideas before I give up and walk away. I don't want to do that!
he is not trying to hurt me, he just gets lost in his own stuff.
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