Honestly, and I know this will be hard to do, but you might have to sit her down and tell her, "I love you a lot and I want to be with you more than anything, but I'm concerned about how angry you get and the fact that you hit, scratch and slap me, and throw things when you're angry isn't acceptable for me. If we're going to continue being together and eventually get married, I think you need to take some anger management classes. It's scary for me, it hurts me, and I have no way to defend myself when you get violent because I'm afraid I'll accidentally hurt you like I did last time."
She will likely get angry and/or upset, she may deny that she's done anything wrong, but hopefully after those initial feelings subside, she'll start to think about what you said and decide to get some help.
If she wont, then it might be time to end your relationship with her. I know you care about her deeply, but no one (not a man or a woman) deserves to be in a relationship where they are scared and physically hurt by someone else.
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you might want to suggest therapy abuse is something hard and traumatizing to go threw. It must really help her to know that your there so don't with hold your support.
thats tough man.. what kind of things set her off? its hard to love someone that's on the edge.
I think if you continue to see her and be around for her then it should slowly stop as she learns to trust you more... good luck buddy
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Tell her if she keeps it up you two are done.
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