My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. 4 months ago I finally told her that I love her. I knew that I did before that time, but early in the relationship she had told me that she once dumped a guy after he told her he loved her because she knew he did not and she did... Show More
Why can't she say I love you?
What Girls Said
goodness, 1 year and a half and she still has not said I love you? Hmmm... I'm not sure why that is. you should ask her and talk about what love means to you guys.
My guy and I said "I love you" to each other about a week or two after we started dating/seeing each other and then he couldn't stop saying it.
The thing is, maybe love means "staying with you forever, and making you apart of her life as very important and meaningful", or love means something else to you and so she isn't ready to give that type of feelings to you. It all depends on your definition of love and what you expect from after the words have been said. Like you said, if she doesn't love you and think you're going to fast then she should tell you why. You know? Just keep an open mind, open communication line to be able to say anything, and try to understand her. we can't really tell you her specific reasons because we are not her. hope that helps. good luck
What Guys Said
Maybe she may have love issues or maybe she needs more time to be with u. Hmm I've been with a girl for a year and she still dumped my ass and I loved her. Maybe she is afraid of getting her heart broken. You should ask why she won't say it or give it more time. Keep ya head up these thing take patience sometimes...