Depends on how or why they lost I think.
I learned to fight in grade school and I usually didn't lose. Only when I was really outweighed by a whole lot.
I also lost a fight once cause my girlfriend hates any fighting whatsoever. And there was one dude who kept coming back. I like fighting in general and always whipped him. He for obvious reasons hated it but wouldn't back down. I finally lost on purpose to get rid of him. (She had asked me to stop it) It was pretty hard to cause just let it happen he was really out for revenge. I was covered in blood both eyes were black and one of my ribs was broken.
But she was real grateful and what she said to me afterwords is one of my fondest memories. : )
Biologically speaking, women will naturally (due to instinct) always be attracted to the winner of the fight as, instinctively, they are attracted to alpha males. What you're REALLY asking is, how many modern women have evolved past this caveman way of thinking? And that, sir, is a good question. One that I would like to know as well.
Well first of all, fighting is TOTALLY unattractive... so whoever started swinging first is automatically unattractive depending on his reasons for doing so (if it was heroic or something than that is a completely different story and makes a man totally hot). I can't say whether or not the guy who loses or wins is hotter because it all depends on how they handle themselves. If a guy loses, and acts all embarrassed and butt hurt, then that is not attractive... on the flip side if the guy who "won" the fight acted all macho and cocky... that would also be unattractive! I do not like it when I can tell that a guy is showing off... not cute! lol
Unless the guy who started the fight had a sister, cousin, etc that someone was picking on he seems unattractive to me especially if he didn't meet the requirement and lost. He seems petty and foolish. I won't deny that I'm a girl who is looking for a protector, he must be able to fend off the enemy somewhat successfully against me and our future children but that doesn't mean he is a physical fighter. It's not really that much about the winner or loser to me but the meaning behind the fight and whether or not there was a personal victory no matter how small.
It depends on the girl. If she is very compassionate, she will probably turn to the loser to comfort him. If she is a strong woman, she will be drawn to the winner as the most desirable male. A closer finish will make less of an impression on her, so the men appear less different. It also depends somewhat in whether it is a physical or verbal fight, who instigated it, and what it's about. Starting fights is not a good way to attract women.
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This is a very good question because I know women hate fighting but they also don't like guys who are doormats and like to be pushed around.
I would go with the guy who did it for the noble reason, that means the guy that probably stock with for his girlfriend, or his buddies when they haven't done anything bad and they were just defending themselves. But most importantly himself, its one thing to be a pushover and let everybody do whatever like with you, and another one to fight when you need to, when your honor and your manhood its been tested and provoked.
I personally hate fighting but I would do it and I have done it when it was necessary.
Some girls of course will go after the guy who wins because he shows off more of a macho thing and some females really like that. Others choose to go after the beaten one because they like taking care of people. Some girls really like to be there for a guy when he's vulnerable. I, personally, would go after the loser and stick by him through some sort of training and watch him go back and beat the sh*t outta the guy. It wouldn't affect me if my boy lost. You win some, you lose some.
I really am not into fighting at all... but, I am assuming that this question is a "if you had to choose" type thing. I think it would depend on the fight. I would probably be attracted to whoever was fighting the "noble" fight. You know... like the guy who was defending his girlfriend, or fighting back in self defense. I don't think winners or losers matter much to me in this situation.
An easy answer? Try not to fight. THAT would be the guy that I am most attracted to.
i personally lose attraction for both. Unless you're under 18, you should have learned by now how to solve a problem without fists, and if not, oh well but I prefer not to be anyone's babysitter. Fighting should end around age 12 or earlier, unless its for your life.
The winner would look way better, since it would be part of the whole "protector" thing. And it would make him appear stronger (even though it just means he is a better fighter). However, if I already liked a guy, it wouldn't really matter, unless he ran away screaming like a little girl. If that was the case, I would no longer have feelings for him.
Evolutionary psychologists would probably say the winner because of physical fitness and sexual selection. However, I think the reasons for the fight play into it a lot, its not who won - its how close was the match and what motivations drove each person to fight.
Speaking from expierence it's sometimes better to be in a fight and loose then to just walk away.
Of course this is in situations such as... they've already started pushing you, they've done something to your personal posessions (purposely broken them or stolen them). ect.
Depends whose the bully really, like for say if the guy that looses was standing up towards the guy who just doesn't know when to quit it (immature want to be bad-ass macho man) then id empathize with the guy that lost which in reality is the mature one with a great strength he ain't even aware of...courage. If both in the other hand fight for stupid things you can ignore or communicate of, the id call it a waste of time, just lost my appetite, big turn off scenario.
-Samantha
Depends on the fight. If someone is beating the crap out of someone in what essentially comes down to a d*** waving contest, well, that's sad. Yes, you can punch real hard, now just wait until you get through puberty and start actually maturing.
If a guy gets into a fight over something worth fighting about, win or lose, that takes guts.
Yes, whoever didn't start a fight is always more attractive. Verbally or physically doesn't really matter.
And I guess it depends on who's right. But if there was a universe where it would be possible that both of them are right, and I liked both of them, I'd probably go for the one who lost, just because I like to take care of people...
Rather are not a guy loses or wins a fight will not interfere with my feelings for him but it would be totally embarrassing if he got the sh*t kicked out of him as long as he put up a decent fight I honestly wouldn't care. Even if he did get his ass beat I don't think it would change anything but it would just be embarrassing for him.
I'll be more attracted to the guy who was just trying to defend himself, unless the guy who started the fight had a really good reason. I'm not really a fan of fighting, and the winner or loser doesn't really have much bearing on me. (: As for your last question, again, depends on why the fight was caused, not the outcome. I'd probably feel bad for the loser, and I'd help clean him up, if that helps.
Hmmm. Personally, I would say, the winner as long as the loser wasn't hurt too bad, a tough guy is a true turn on. And seeing him win a fight makes a girl think that if she needs protected, he can provide that. I mean as long as he isn't totally senseless and severely hurts the other guy. Hope my answer helped
-Stephani
i'd be more attracted to the one who's smart enough to behave himself in a mature way.
fist fights are for babies. only people who can't use words will use their fist to defend themselves.
Girls would be attracted to the winner because he is tougher. Girls love guys that can fight.
The badly beaten weaker guy would be ignored and left out in the cold. The winner always gets the girl even if he started the fight. Losing a fight is the ultimate turn off and deal-breaker.
Girls want to feel protected and they can't if they're with a piss-weak guy who loses fights.
you know what girls would prefer? a whole community of beaten up guys!
How appealing, idiots fighting over chicks, and even if they tell you they don't like to see guys fight, it's just a part of their nastiness, they are the main sh*t stirrers in the world, and before you say a word it's historically known.
Neither. I think fighting is stupid and unattractive.
That said, the person who instigates the fight is always less attractive, regardless of who "wins" or "loses".
LOL obviously the winner
My friend beat up this guys girlfriend and then dated her
don't listen to these girls, if a girl likes the loser it's gonna be out of pity
The lesson is don't fight if you think you're going to lose
depends what they were fighting for
id hate them if they fought over something stupid, all the feeling I had for them would just disappear
if they fought for me...id might pick the one who lost
its like you know you didn't stand a chance yet you tried..and the other guy didn't stop even when you were on the ground which made it seem like he was an ass
Women will be way more attracted to the winner because he is tougher. Girls like guys who can be their bodyguard and protect them. They will be completely turned off by the loser. It doesn't matter who started the fight. The tough guy ALWAYS gets the girl, while the badly beaten weaker guy will be ignored, he's on his own.
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