I'm sleeping with a younger man, who just happens to be my son's friend. Should we stop? I'm enjoying it.

So I'm in my late thirties and he is 21 ... I seduced him one night and since then it's been GREAT! Duhhh I know it's scandalous but since it's been done... Why stop? My sons are clueless because I am very careful about everything,but we may have feelings now that are making it difficult to stop! I just need someone to tell me this is cool...I'm a hippie type and love is love... He respects me like I respect him?
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  • This happened to me during my teen years as i caught the cunt who claims to be my mother in bed fucking the piece of shit who claims to be my friend, as you can imagine i instantly took my revenge on them both..

    I was 18 when it all happened, i was arrested, went to caught and was released on a lighter sentence of 34 months community service for assault using deadly force, to which i served my sentence whilst living with my grandfather and then eventually left the country..

    13 years since that incident I went back for my grandfathers funeral when i bumped into “you know who” and his appearance still shows signs of scarring from the beating i gave him, as well as missing teeth and the use of only one eye.. Not to mention the look of fear in his eyes when he noticed that i had saw him..

    My cunt of a mother however suffered only a broken nose and a black eye during her attempts to stop me that night, which shows minimal signs of scarring but is still there.. Never said a word to her at the funeral, even during her attempts at small talk with me.

    All i did was look at her like a she was a sick animal and haven’t spoken to her since and never will, as i have moved on with my life by moving far away from the cunt..

    At the end of the day im not sorry for my actions nor will i apologise, I've served my sentence thats all that matters.. I never really cared how they both must be feeling after everthing that went down, but at least they both know how i feel about them after everything that went down..

    Moral of the story, if your son/s are anything like how i was back then over this sort of shit.. You better pray your little ass off your sons never find out..

  • He's 21: old enough to decide for himself.

    Your son might have a problem with it, that depends on the way you raised him.

    • They know I date younger men... I'm just so taken by this one! He's fricken Hot! I tried not too! I knew him for a while and then recently saw a difference in him ... And had to have em' theyvwould be pissed but...wouldn't hold it against me... Him they would !

    • I do expect a problem between you and your son.

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  • so this is more a comment than an answer! you're my hero! lol...seriously...i'm in my late 30s and am finding myself unusually attracted to someone 10-12 years my jr. I have no balls...can't seem to give his guy a hint or clue..i think the competition is too stiff..so I stay clear away...anyway...kudos to you!

  • I mean I’d be pretty pissed off if I were your son.

    • You’re asking the wrong people, should be asking your son, not us. What you’re doing doesn’t affect us, it affects him. Wise up.

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  • I think that's cool. But he's gonna find out one day and it might seriously mess with his head. If I were your son, I'd be pretty traumatized if I had found it out. Might be a good idea to get a different sex partner. There are plenty of men out there looking for casual sex.

  • You’re asking that some stranger tell you it’s o. k for you to sleep with your son’s friends? You should be asking your sons, they are the ones who will have to deal with the pain and you’re bragging about how clueless they are and how great it is to hurt them?
    A mother doesn't sleep with her son's friends. How are they going to feel when they get mocked and teased everywhere they go because their moms a whore, where are they supposed to get friends when they don't respect him. What kind of mother has to f**k-up her son's social lives to get one of her own? What kind of mother has to compete with her sons for their friends? how are they supposed to feel if their own mother loves their friends more than them and chooses their friends over them? A mother is sacred to her son it's not just sex to them, because she is their mother. It's like saying rape is just sex or a pedophile is just having sex. She raped her son's souls just to get a little attention. She degraded her sons and helped their friends to disrespect them. they will be hurt, some snot nosed kid used their mom like a whore and she enjoied it, she enjoied hurting them. and you’re bragging and laughing about it?

  • Does your son need an extra friend by any chance?

    • So that's the thing... I'm not friends with a lot of people I met in my youth... And they have so many friends... It's nuts cause they left us at my house for a whole weekend together ... They knew he had to be here... They didn't call or anything... We are probably better friends then they are... We have a lot in common!