I find adorable cuteness attractive, so like 'MeisterEder', I'm naturally attracted to younger girls. Ironically, I also seem to attract younger girls.
Anyways, to answer the ?:
I'll be honest; I've seen girls that are/look 15, 16, 17 year old, and said to myself "she's cute" or "mmm, delicious", esp. since some girls seem to dress, um, not innocent. I'm the type of guy that has seen teen celebrities & said "damn I can't wait until she's 18" or "she'll get me locked up". Yeah...im a perv. :)
However, to me, it isn't worth the risk to be involved with a girl I find out is underage. I've approached girls, found out her age, & politely ended conversation & walked away.
Pedophiles get it the worst in jail; worse than people in hate groups or even rapists.
I have too much to lose in life (unlike people in the ghetto that feel like they don't have s***.). I'm college-educated, I have an excellent job prospect, I have a solid image/personal reputation & a squeaky-clean legal record. I'm not gonna risk all that by dating a 15-17yr girl & having either the legal/personal tag of "pedophile" (whether I get officially charged or not). That's a gamble I'm not willing to take.
I know I may sound extreme...but you have to understand that older guys that have a lot going for them are risking A LOT more being with you than meets the eye.
P.S. Don't blame the guys...blame the law. Demi Lovato would have got some of me a year ago if it wasn't for the law. ;-)
Most Helpful Opinions
Your not even 18 yet. You do understand you can go to prison dating a girl underage? Even talking to them is bad news. I am 21 and my ex girlfriend was 18 and in high school (senior) at the time. She didn't have a job, car, and I had to hear about her high school drama. I will never date a girl in high school again. However there have been times when I would start a conversation with a girl who is younger than I thought. I would continue the conversation but I wouldn't ask for her number or flirt with her.
To answer your question, older men are not afraid of younger girls. They are afraid of going to jail and spend the rest of their life with a title. The title of being a pedophile.
I think its because they don't want to deal with going to jail,soap on a rope and the many awful things that could happen while there. So instead,they stick to women more in their age range...you know over 18...consenting adults...you get the idea.
Because its illegal and some guys get scared of getting caught. Also a lot of times a younger girl is on a different level of maturity than them and has different wants and needs then they do.
I wonder the same thing...i agree with you about older guys being more attractive. but I haven't found one and don't know where to find one so I just stick to my age range
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
7Opinion
I've always found younger girls more attractive, but there is a kind of blockade in our heads. you don't know how to handle it, maybe you make yourself liable to prosecution, other people look at you...
Important is if you have a relationship with a teen, the parents should go confirm with this.
So you are right, it's kind of scary to talk to younger girls!because no male at any age age wants to go to jail for doing an under aged girl hence the term jail bait
err..I think we don't act on it, casue we don't want to go to jail!
Its socially unacceptable. I like younger girls and I'm only 16, though, hahaha.
I agree with Kermit. There's also the possibility that they don't want to be stuck with somebody who's less mature than they are. I mean no offense, but logically, if you are younger you're going to be less mature.
It's called jailbait and no it doesn't apply to sex only.
It's called jailbait for a reason
Most guys would feel creepy doing that.
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions