My boyfriend likes to go several days without talking to me.
My boyfriend likes to go several days without talking to me. He doesn't have a cellphone, or a car, or a computer. He has a home phone and a job. He... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
I am in a long distance relationship as well, and he is very busy as too...it is frustrating when he doesn't touch base for days! I know how you feel. I am sorry you are not feeling good right now, weirdly, this past year has tough for me too, health wise.
Before you dump him, perhaps suggest the cell phone he gets lets him I'm you.(instant message) We have found that to be very helpful, as some guys are not 'talkers', and feel sort of 'talked out' when we may not have even got started! I believe gmail and of course yahoo have nice im-ing. pics are nice to send via cell too. It also lets him contact you, and have freedom from verbal if he is in a rush-and you feel better having a little 'hello' in your day. Or simple old txting is great. BlackBerries and others are cool to use for lots of txting, etc.
Of course, if he just doesn't give you the communication you long for, in the long run-you are deserving of a guy who will connect with you the way you need and want. Please feel better soon, hugs~ >';'< meow grrl power!
What Guys Said 2
The only part needed was the question. He's really not worth your time find yourself a new boyfriend.
He's not your boyfriend if he ignores you like that. You obviously don't mean much to him. Dump this loser.
What Girls Said 4
I think its time for you to move on and find someone who pays attention to you. I understand that he's working and he's probably busy with work but that's no excuse to go that long without talking to you especially if you were in the hospital. I don't think he cares about you as much as he may make you think. Give it some time. Break up and date other guys, if things were meant to be then things will happen. But right now you both need a break from each other.
who asked out who?
move on. he's not worth your time what so ever.