it is worth it. Because later on you would of felt you didn't try as hard or that maybe if she knew how I felt then... It will make you feel better getting it out there. And if the person just rejects it I have noticed that later on even they will at least know how you feel and may bring the person back. Just I have recently put my heart all out there for a guy who said he needed time to figure himself out and everythng and distance..but I at least said how I feel towards him so he knows how much I do care about him. I feel people go through these stages of confusion and when the stage is over the person realizes what they really want. I say put it all on the line ... you don't have anything else to lose by trying.
Yea I would. I have totally thrown every ounce of pride I had out the window for one guy inparticular. It didn't make a difference and it would have been more worth it having my dignity intact in the end, but hey, at least I can say I tried. If you're not willing to put yourself out there then there is not point in even trying. Love is about making a d*** of yourself, I have many times and I don't care because I don't look back regretting what I should have said and done.
I don't recommend it for a guy. It's not about a pride thing but I see it more as a respect thing. The way I see it is if this girls is 100% worth it, I mean you would absolutely have to know what is in her heart an if she is cold then don't lower yourself to someone that will not appreciate it afterwards.
if you can do it without begging and being desperate all good, if you can hint at it while being humorous shell love it. Keep it light don't just be like I love you still, say something like" I don't know how to say this, (laugh), umm look all I know is if the world was ending tomorrow your eyes would be the last thing I would want to see." make sure you don't wait for an answer or expect one. and let that simmer, shell tell her friends and you will score some points for sure. If you can do it with the attitude I'm fine and happy without you woman but I would really like to spend my time with you, your in.
Yes , I do ! when it doesn't work out it hurts like hell. I feel that pain right this moment. I don't regret what I should have done differently. I attracted her because of those feelings , when it came down to hooking up it fueled those emotions. In the long run she was too detached so she ran. I will always be remembered for opening up my heart to her... I did not react well when these emotions were rejected because it hurt, and she was just simply incapable of giving and recieving. I am hurt but this will not harden my heart like the others I have found!
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it's not stupid or foolish telling someone how you feel. It is stupid and foolish begging and pleading if they don't feel the same!
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