you can also answer to 'a woman is only as faithful as her options' too since I know not everyone here likes men.
so, is this saying more true then not, or is it complete BS?
thanks! :)
people are either a peice of $h!t or they are not. I have been cheated on by 3 different girls who did so with no remorse whatsoever. one girl even slept with me and the other guy in the same day. and I have never retaliated, never cheated to begin with, not in any way shape or form. and I have had PLENTY of options to cheat with every single girl I have been with. and usually offers from her "friends". and still I have never done it. it is just not me and I'm not nor never will be a cheater. so it has nothing to do with options and everything to do with what kind of person your dealing with. now if a person is ALREADY A CHEATER then the right opportunities will make them cheat more, but those opportunities do not turn someone into a cheater. they are already that on their own. hope this makes sense. so don't be afraid of the opportuntities presented to a guy, worry about what kind of guy he is in the first place.
this is why so many girls mess up when they get jelous of a girl and take it out on their guy with the world famous line..."its not you I don't trust its her". WRONG, if you have a guy worth having, chances are many other girls are gonna wanna have him too. they will always approach him and try him. you can NOT stop that. so if you don't trust him then move on but if you do, you just have to get over it and practice what you preach and trust him, and let him handle it. I just broke up with my girlfriend over this same crap. girls try me and I always put them in their place about it. I don't need my girlfriend in my face about a situation that I handled the right way and already took care of. she couldn't control her jelousy and now she is gone. opportunities/options are there for EVERYBODY. the individual however is the one that makes the call based on what they are made of, be it gold or dog $h!t.
glad I could help. I wish my ex could have dug up the confidence to understand/apply this. she was a great girl but somethings just get old and you have to decide if your gonna live the rest of your life like this or your not. but good luck to you and your situations!
The more jealous and controlling you get, the more true that phrase becomes. It's ironic that women already know how a controlling guy can make them want to find someone else, yet constantly act controlling themselves... checking guys mobiles, sh*t like that, as soon as a girl tries to check my mobile In the back of my mind chances are I'm not going to be spending a very long time with her
thats a really good point you brought up. I do have some jealousy issues but I've reduced them a lot. I used to check his phone and all that stuff but I've stopped.. its a really hard thing to get under control once your in the habit of it, and I can see how it would push guys away to find someone better. I'm just interested in others' opinions
thats good, what are the signs that tell you what girls you would never get the urge to cheat on? I have a feeling I might be for my current boyfriend, because he always wants to spend his free time with me and the just the way he treats me makes me feel like he would never cheat
It depends. My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and she was not faithful at all, more like a manipulative bitch... Anyways, I've had plenty of options too but I've been faithful for him. It depends on how much you love them and care too
We're still together. Tomorrow however will be the one year 'anniversay' of his cheating however :-/
He doesn't have feelings for her anymore after that...it was just something that happened because he was mad at me and did it out of angry. He made a mistake, but today I admitted that I forgave him for everything. He didn't know what I meant by it, but it made me feel better
Beyond trusting your partner, you have to maintain the confidence that you are their best option.
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It depends on if he really loves his gf/wife or not. And true love is hard to find.
If you want me to put a number on it, the statistics show that about 50% of all marriages in the usa end in divorce, and I'd bet that's much higher for relationships which end in breakup.
So the odds are against you, you're gonna have to play your cards right.
If the person is the go-out-all-the-time type, then yes.
most people are willing to upgrade ... not a big deal
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