I am in love with a playboy... How to make him fall for me?

[Anonymous]

I am in love with a guy that hasn't had a serious relationship in years, he is really hot and cute, but he can't settle down. We still are not friends, so he doesn't know me that well. How do I get him to fall for me. AND STAY WITH ME.

[scarbo]

You can't do anything to make him fall for you and then stay faithful to you in the conventional sense. Only he has control over whether he will pursue other attractive women once in a relationship.

If on the other hand he is sexually attracted to you and you let him know he could have complete freedom in a relationship with you, which would naturally be an open one, you may have a chance of keeping him around. Of course, you would have to share him with others, but the rarity of such an offer may make him want to take the opportunity while he can.

[sinful1620]

Okay, I need you to focus. Turn off any music or TV that could distract you. You have to pay full attention because you need to understand this:

YOU

CAN'T.

Period.

There's no exceptions. You can't make a guy like that fall for you, and you especially can't make him stay with you. No matter what you'll just be "the next girl" until you become "the previous girl".

[Asker]

I think I can get him to do that I just need to know why because I was talking to him one day and he said that he was tired of the life like being the player, he wanted to setle down, ehe is 31 years old, and I am 21, he even told me we could spend Valentine's together because we are both single... So I think I am in the good path... just need to know how to make him stay.

[sinful1620]

You didn't listen.

[Ammi786hot]

make him notice your existence 1st and then try catching his eyes by your figure or flirt
talk to guys around him

[malekoniky]

Write me please. (you see my nickname I don't see yours)

[avarakedavra]

same problem here. did you have him?