My boyfriend wants to beat up my guy friend because of one mistake three nights ago?

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Broke a promise two nights ago

I promised my boyfriend I wouldn't drink at all ever and then it changed to I promise I won't drink when he wasn't there. But I did! I felt horrible. It was really the first time I'd drank and got like more than tipsy. I flirted with a guy and stuff. I don't know why I did that. The alcohol was speaking, not me. It's hard because I wanted to drink but I obviously care about my boyfriend more. I just feel SO guilty, even though I told him everything. It's hard not to give into peer pressure sometimes. He forgave me, though, but when he thinks about it he gets so upset. I regret it although I did have fun. It's not like I cheated on him. But I promised I would never drink again... The guy I flirted with though ended up taking advantage of me :'( He confessed everything and now he feels bad...

the thing is, no one was supposed to tell anybody what happened, but he did... so I ended up telling my boyfriend just so he wouldn't hear a bad "rumor" like I cheated or something, Because I didn't! I broke a promise and drank, but after that it wasn't me ;(

My boyfriend wants to beat up this guy now, so badly... and I'm scared that if he does, the consequences will be too hard to handle. My parents could find out, his could, the university could kick him out... I don't know :S And now I don't know if he's doing it for pride or Because he cares about me. What should I do? We love each other very much, but this is insane. Nothing I do or say can change his mind. I've even thought of just threatening to break up Because I know FOR SURE he wouldn't break up with me... please help... :'(
My boyfriend wants to beat up my guy friend because of one mistake three nights ago?
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