How would you react to a love letter, guys?

[Anonymous]

The end of my current school is very near, and I'm going to continue to another educational area.

Anyways, I've been crushing on this guy, during this whole school year. And I've thought about confessing to him (through the letter) the last day of school. (Since I don't expect his feelings to be mutual, I just want to tell him)

So guys... How would you react to a love letter from your class, that you had no idea has been having a crush on you? Or how would you feel? Scared? Flattered? Anything else? (The letter will be read at home, where I won't be present)

[alimahadtheman]

Wow, first of all HATS off to you for having the confidence in doing something RARELY any girl does (but rather waits for the guy to confess which is STUPID).

Eitherways I am going to assume this guy is not one of those jerks who will go out with the letter and show it off to his bffs braging how he is too cool for you (major MAJOR fail).

Having said that, I will tell you one thing. Even if a guy doesn't crush on you back (which is unlikely because guys consider dating almost every single girl they meet, trust me. They don't even realize when they do it), it is ALWAYS an erection for a guys ego when he is thrown some love at. Guys LOVE it. It makes them feel like a man and go 'whoa seriously?! AWESOMEEEEE!' in such cases 98% of the times unless of course they are total tools.

So basically whether he likes you or not, I bet he will be thrilled to find out about this. He will be shy, probably. But I'm sure he likes you too, you sound like a really nice girl.

And a tip: Make it candid and funny, not desperate and romeoo-julliet material.

Be roughly suggesting...something like 'Okay so I'm not gonna hide this but I had a blast secretly crushing on you this year; you're a cutie pie' something like that :P

The point being that compliment him moderately without coming across as a creep, so that he feels good about this and not freaked out. And don't sound like a doormat who miserably fell for this guy because he wouldn't value you otherwise.

I hope my nonsensical blanter was any useful xD

-Ali mahad

[Asker]

Very helpful, actually! Thanks! =D

I'm just a very confident person in general, so don't worry I won't bring myself down! ... I'm not that skeptical about this anymore, so I'm just looking forward to do it.

Really, thanks a lot!

[DonMichelle]

It would flatter any lad, guys like attention too lol regardless of who it's from. If I recieved a gay love letter I'd be nervous, uneasey... but it'd still boost my confidence :) haha

As for the nature of the letter, the way in which it'd been delivered and understanding the effort involved in her writing the letter, she's swallowed her pride, she's exposed herself and the fear, imbarressment, bravery and openess that are all captured in that letter... it's wonderful, cute :)

I'd love a love letter posted through my door, I'd be smiling allllllll day :)

[Distant]

I would be VERY flattered. I would feel disappointed that the girl didn't mention this crush earlier! Be sure to leave your mobile number at the end of the note in case. You don't want to miss out on something wonderful!

~Distant

[johnireland02]

Personally I would be flattered. You never know, maybe he has feelings for you. Make sure you leave your email address or contact when you move to another area :)

[dreadheadMJW]

I would be flattered that a girl like me.