sometime we girls think that guys are just not capable of love but we all love in different ways I guess..so my question is how do guys feel when... Show More
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The first time I was in love, it felt like I was invincible because there was this thing carrying me through my life, that I had this love that would endure through anything. And it did for a while. It was almost intoxicating knowing how much I loved her and she loved me. Making love with her was almost too intense. I'm not a religious or spiritual guy, but I would describe sex with that girl as a spiritual experience for me. The intensity of my desire to have her and make her happy and know she feels the same about me was more than anything I'd ever felt before that. Other ways I felt that love in my life include wanting to bring her with me any time I traveled, wanting to plan the future with her, and wanting to surprise her with something nice as often as possible.
After my first love, love was still intense but never like that again. It's more like this warm glowing furnace in the corner of my mind that I know I have there in case I get cold. But I knew it was most likely that we'd break up in a couple years max, and we did. Maybe that was a self-fulfilling prophecy, but the upside of that tradeoff is that the breakup was less painful.