I need a girl who can make something for me to eat and same for most guys. As most guys always say a way to their stomach is a way to their heart. Even a sandwich or something would likely start off the progress. But it is a dealbreaker but I've been with girls that don't know how to cook and been fine but than I normally cook for myself or if to busy I end up eating fast food and so does she. The thing I hate about it is I rather know she can food so when I come from school/work I can get down to eating if she's home. That's all I want to do is eat. And it's the same for every guy I know. Busy day means hungry when coming home. So if you invite him for a dinner or something maybe that's all he wants.
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It is not a deal breaker. See... as a man... we have deal breakers that make sense. Like if you've been in a mental institution, or you're missing multiple limbs, or you're a single mother. Or you have a sh*t personality. There is no getting around that sh*t.
Girls have stupid sh*t... like oh... he's unemployed. Like he'll be unemployed the rest of his f***ing life. Or he drives a stupid car. Or he doesn't dress nice. Stupid... non-permanent, fixable things.
Cooking? So what? You can learn to cook if it's so important. Or he'll cook. Or you'll eat out. Who cares?
It's not a deal breaker.
I know I'm not a guy, but...OK, if you can cook, why is this such a big, mysterious dilemma for you? Either cook a dinner for him or forget it. And why don't you ask him why he keeps asking you to do so? It seems to me that the best thing to do is clarify this with him. It's no big deal. Really. Just tell him that you can cook, and ask him if that would be a deal breaker for him if you couldn't. After all, if your in a relationship, you should be able to discuss anything. Otherwise, you shouldn't be in a relationship. Right?
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Doubt it's a dealbreaker. Definitely isn't for me. He's probably just joking around or just curious to try your cooking. But if a girl couldn't cook for crap I wouldn't care as long as the other important things were working. And if they weren't but she were the freaking Iron Chef, it wouldn't matter.
Cooking shouldn't be that big a deal, but some people want a mother. If he breaks up with you because you can't cook, it's his loss. Trust me, you have nothing to worry about.
I don't know him so I couldn't say. I don't really care if a girl can cook or not.
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I like to cook, so I wouldn't mind. Even if I couldn't, it would not be a big deal though.
Not a deal breaker. Could I get some cajun food here?
If she makes enough money that we could go out and eat healthy every night, then it's not a deal breaker.
yes, but for me it isn't
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