Use your chats together to your advantage. Learn more about him. Try to pick up any hints on how he feels about you, he may want to take your relationship to the next level. Since your shy, remember that the flaws you see in yourself are practically invisible to others. Keeping this in mind should help boost your confidence. Try to act like he's just another guy friend, because he is. Since he's your boyfriend, he has to have good feelings toward you. Therefore, why is there any reason to hide your true personality. Give him the chance to know you better. Make sure you don't rush into things, if you're not ready, that will not help your shyness. Try to start giving him compliments. He's sure to start doing the same. Being complimented by your boyfriend is the best confidence booster in the world.
U hope this helped, if not, don't give up, try to give yourself tips.
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IT would be an effort for both of you as I see it BUT you should put more on it. It feels good to be yourself every time especially to people you love the most. No pretentions. And this I know you know because you feel good whenever you are at your craziest and weirdest self with friends.
Release yourself slowly with this shyness. I was once shy with my boyfriend too before but whenever I want to be myself I just say it out loud to him "Argh! I'm so shy when I'm with you!" or whenever we talk on the phone, but he just made me comfortable and he did his part by sharing things we love to do and let me talk :)
Now we can tease each other and laugh each others' mistakes too. I'm not shy anymore. I feel great to be on my own self when I'm with him - he is now my husband :)
All the best to you ^_^
You have to stop caring about what he thinks of you. Be yourself even if he judges you
Admit to your boyfriend that you're nervous. You really like him but you're worried of saying something bad that'll turn him away. You have this fear that you need to overcome. You're confident and free around your other friends, but when you're with him, you're a worried mess.
You really want this relationship to work, but you just need time to build more comfort with him.
If your boyfriend is an @ssh0le, he'll laugh at you and say "Yeah, you better work on that".
If your boyfriend is a good guy, he'll definitely understand, smile at you, and say it's not a problem.
Perhaps this insecurity came about because he treats you badly, which has shattered your confidence in communicating with him.
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