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lol Just in case... I understand, and I think it is a very prudent move on your part. =)
I was not nasty about it at all. I simply told him that he should date other people to be sure of what he's looking for. No sense in both of us sitting on our hands being confused. I will still be there for him just in a different way.
He's looking around seeing what's better. To him, you are just an option
I don't think that's the case. Regardless, I'll let him be his own person and be supportive as a friend
Pfft. He has no effing idea what he wants right now.
WOW, he's in his 30's and not ready for a relationship?!
That's good that you're not willing to be waiting on him. ;-)
The guy has been hurt a lot in the past and claims he's not ready. Whichever way, that doesn't look to good for me. I will be a friend but, won't be waiting for all eternity for him to decide
Good job!
That he is not intersted in a comitted relationship.
How long have you been dating?
almost 3 months. He said this because I asked to define the relationship
Ok. How is everything else? Do you feel he is becoming a bit distant with you? Have things changed as far as the time he's spending with you, the intimacy? I think if he wanted out and didn't feel anything for you anymore than he would just say it. At least this is how my ex ended things with me. If he's having financial issues, I think he wants to become more stable with that before becoming serious with you. It's a pride thing with guys.
If you believe him then just give him time.
He can have all the time he needs. In the meanwhile, I'll go do my own thing. If he can't see my value and is willing to let me go into another mans arms.. he is not for me. However, I'll be supportive from a distance.