He says he loves me, but he flirts with others girls? Does that mean he doesn't actually love me?

[Anonymous]

He says he loves me, but he flirts with others girls? Does that mean he doesn't actually love me? Thanks.

He most likely doesn't

He probably does, but just being ass..

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Thanks for all your answers.

[Anonymous]

Not sure you know what love is... sorry :(. Same with him. If he's flirting with other girls and still thinks he loves you, he's got a lot to learn about life and love. When you're in love you can't even think about being with another girl. And I might be wrong but I don't think you guys know each other THAT well, and if that's true I don't feel like it's possible for you guys to love each other. I think the word you're looking for is "like", not "love", and well, I don't think there's any doubt you guys like each other. But love, I'm not so sure about that. I'd say you guys don't love each other. Sorryyyyyyyyyy :(

[Asker]

If I said 'like' instead of 'love' does that mean, he doesn't really like me?

[Opinion Owner]

No I'm sure he likes you.

[Asker]

But he claims he knows what love is

[Opinion Owner]

But that's what he claims. He obviously doesn't. But it shouldn't matter because he still likes you, and I know you like him. So you can just ask him not to flirt with other girls, but still be happy :)

[Asker]

But how can I still look at him the same way before he started flirting with other girls?

[Opinion Owner]

You can't. You can't look at anyone the same way you did before they did something (whether good or bad). You're always changing how you look at people. But if he stops flirting with other girls I'm sure you'll still think of him as as awesome as ever :3

[Asker]

Hehe, I hope he stops because he'll break my heart if hi doesn't :-(

[Opinion Owner]

Just ask him to.

[Asker]

But I shouldn't have to..

[Opinion Owner]

I know :(, it sucks. It's not nice of him to have done that. But unless you want him to keep it up, you'll have to ask him to stop :(

[Asker]

Not long ago he said he was joking and said that's not flirting, was it?

[Opinion Owner]

The second one was joking AND flirting. No doubt.

[Asker]

Thats what I think, I only wish he could feel my pain..

[Opinion Owner]

Just tell him how much it hurts you and ask him nicely to stop "joking" (as he calls it) whether it's flirting or not, because it sure seems like flirting and it really hurts you.

[Asker]

Im gonna put all my trust on this guy again..

[Opinion Owner]

This guy as in your guy? No, don't trust him till he says he won't do it anymore.

[Asker]

He did last night

[Opinion Owner]

Well then, trust him. AND BE HAPPY :D

[Asker]

hahahahahaha, OK :-D

[Opinion Owner]

*happy hair-ruffling*

[Asker]

hahahahahaha, thanks for that anon :-)

[Opinion Owner]

LOL :D

[Opinion Owner]

Aww thanks for best answer, anon girl :P

*anon high five*

[Asker]

*high fives back* :-) no worries

[Havendorf]

Sometimes guys(like girls, I'd assume), have a certain need to feel that members of the opposite gender, other than their partner, is attracted to them. If I were you, I wouldn't worry about it to much, he's probably nOt serious at all about these other girls

[Asker]

Thanks

[cfairley20]

My question in order to give you a valid answer is how do you feel about him? If you really like him your judgement could be clouded and you're blind to the fact that he's playing with you. I think you answered your own question. Don't let a guy play with your emotions, either you're with me or not. By the way don't take my answer to mean that you're this over jealous crazed girlfriend if he even talks to another girl, I just mean don't allow him to play with your emotions that way.

[Jazz_92]

not sure he loves u. love is such a strong word. if I really love a gal I would never think abt someone else, she would be the queen of my mind :P. if you are in a relationship with him you could keep him on a leash but in a long distance relationship you can't stop him from flirting with other girls.

[Asker]

Thanks ^.^

[Jazz_92]

u are very welcome :)

[SuRpRiZeD]

if you guys aren't a couple then I don't know how he could love you in a real way, not that friend "Love you!" bullsh*t, if you guys aren't going out then his "i love you" don't mean nuthin

[Asker]

Thanks

[Taltos]

Either he's a natural flirt, or he likes to play around.