My boyfriend invited me over to his house and his guy friend was over...

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His guy friend parked on his spot and there was no parking outside. When I called him he said, " Well I don't know what to tell you."

I think because I'm his girlfriend I should have the priority, but I feel like I was treated like a second class citizen!

Sure, I might be acting a little over the top, but I feel I should be the priority in his life over his friends.

So, I said, " I hope Bob is going to suck your d*** at night!"

With that being said I left!

What do you think" Am I right or wrong?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

hmmn its an awkward situation all together there are rights and wrongs in this- and first I can relate why you're mad, its because he said 'well I don't know what to tell you" that phrase always is a bad phrase to use lol, he couldve been more caring and come outside to give you a kiss first and then suggest another parking spot for u, or may be be a loving boyfriend and offer to park somewhere for u, you guys couldve drove together looking for a spot, there's always a romantic way to do things even finding a simple parking spot lol, basically he couldve handled the situation better, may be offer to pick you up himself, or not invite you and the best friend over at the same time if you just wanted some alone time/romantic time with him...friendships and relationships should be separated and balanced

on the other hand, it was also wrong of you to get too angry about it and say the d*** part you couldve said something like 'way to be nice to your girlfriend :( ' or just be polite and openly talk about it with him after

i always tell myself this- just be an independent woman and always look for yourself don't rely on guys to do everything for you like finding parking spots even, just be a tough woman and people will respect you more

cun7n1nja · Accepted Answer

I understand why you'd be a little irritated, because it's annoying to have to park up the street and walk. But it's not THAT big of a deal. You hugely overreacted. It's not like you have to do this all the time, it was a one time deal, because his friend was visiting. So for this visit, his friend was the guest and took priority. And that makes perfect sense to me. Your boyfriend could have warned you ahead of time that if you were coming over, you might have to park up the street or around the corner a little. But that doesn't warrant you blowing up at him like that and throwing a tantrum. That's what most people call 'psycho girlfriend' behavior. That's the s.hit guys talk about in regards to their exes after their breakups. Do you really want to be that girl?

Darkfairie17 · Accepted Answer

I can kind of see why you would be mad. Why would he expect you to come over if there is nowhere to park? Maybe he should have went with his friend to pick you up, or invited you over when his friend left?

I do think you over-reacted a bit. I would have just asked him why you were invited over if there was no parking. I think he was being a jerk for not really caring you had no where to park, especially since you drove to see him. If I go to see someone, I expect to be able to park somewhere.

I really don't know what else to say other than talk to him about what happened, and tell him that you want to have more respect from him. He doesn't really seem to respect you.

myspacemybroke · Accepted Answer

It might not have been entirely polite of him to not leave you any space, but to throw a tantrum worthy of some bloody teenybopper is hardly the answer.

BeerME · Accepted Answer

And that would be the point where I dumped you, just saying.

andrea93 · Answer

This is actually ridiculous.

Girls saying that your boyfriend isn't being 'a man' because you think you're a princess and should be handed a parking spot?

You're clearly young and naiive if you're letting this bother you.

It's as simple as this - you came AFTER the friend. It would be rude of your boyfriend to ask his friend to move his car just for you. On top of that, chances are you're relationship won't last anyways BUT the friendship probably will. So really, whose worth it ?

This has NOTHING to do with being a man, this has everything to do with yet another girl who thinks the guy should bend backwards for her.

Let me ask you this, whens the last time you did something sweet for your boyfriend withouth expecting anything back?

Honestly grow up, I'm surprised your boyfriend is still with you after a comment like that. I would've kicked your ass to curb the minute you said that.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, the comment that you made was a little uncalled for...funny, but uncalled for LOL.  But... I DO understand how you are upset.  When you mentioned to your boyfriend that there is no spot for you to park, his response was, "I don't know what to tell you."  He didn't make any room for you or any arrangements for you.  He could have been a Man and tell his friend to make room for you or take the initiative to help you but he didn't. Without the comment, I would have left too.  You deserve to be treated better by any Guy you are dating.

andrea93 · Answer

Wow. That is extremely childish. Especially over a parking spot. Guess what sweetie? The friend was there first so obviously he's going to park there, you shouldn't expect his friend to move his car just for you.

The fact that you said "I hope Bob is going to suck your d*** at night" adds to the immaturity!

Congratz!

violets2014 · Answer

I think that if his friend was there first he should be allowed to park there. I get that you're upset but you are coming off as a bitch. Guys can have friends and a girlfriend. They are people that are important to him and it's not up to you who out ranks who. You are completely overreacting and using sex to make your case makes you look lame. He can get head from anyone he's in a relationship with you for a reason. Don't let him forget why he loves you.

AmberChick · Answer

You are wrong.  And here's why.  First off, guys don't like girls who try and control their lives especially what kind of friends they have and who parks in their spot or not.  It's his friend who is important to his life too so he should be able to park in a good spot as well.  Just because you have a vagina and put his d*** in your mouth you get special priority?  No, that's not how it works.  You have to earn it through other ways as well... Sorry hun, but you were in the wrong lol

greenbeans23 · Answer

Actually I can see why you would be annoyed. If his friend was already over and he knows he had taken the one parking spot available, why would he invite you over? And then not help you figure out where to park/ask his friend to hang out later? Although, unless you two have been seriously dating for years, I don't necessarily think you should feel like his number one priority. But besides that little statement I agree with you!

Ceekash · Answer

well you should be his first priority and he should have warned his friends before to save you a spot..

i mean my boyfriend does that he would even save me the closest spot to the door (he such a sweetheart) and at least he would've called one of his friends and as them to find a spot for you or smthin

well probably you shouldn't have said that to him, I don't know I like dealing with things calmly, but he deserved it his jerk !

sunwolf94 · Answer

Whoa girl. If this guy is HIS BEST FRIEND then I'm positive that he was in your boyfriends life before you. Not only that, but he was also literally there first in the spot. You could have parked somewhere else and walked.

Go apologize now.

Eiffelgirl21 · Answer

I understand why you got upset..but, I would have handled it differently...I would have not said anything about it until later when we were alone...and just asked him if maybe next time to make sure you have a parking spot..or at least help me getting a parking spot.  but, I wouldn't have been mean about it.  I understand how you feel..but, maybe you both aren't at that level yet for him to put your first. best xx

candlewax · Answer

You sound entitled. I get that you'd be miffed, but you made too much of a big deal about it. Getting THAT upset about a parking spot says a lot about you and your attitude in the relationship. Hope you have fun with your vibrator at night.

Beastieboys95 · Answer

Sorry but his friends are HIS FRIENDS they should be above you and you acting like that only makes you seem like a psycho girlfriend. I get mad at my boyfriend for not hanging out with his friends enough.

jcmrq · Answer

I'd have also dumped you for acting that way. No man who respects himself will stand that sort of treatment and ridiculous sense of entitlement.

Chrissy1986 · Answer

i think you over reacted a little on this, his friend was there first no big deal move your car after his friend leaves

idontgetit123 · Answer

That's exactly what my girlfriend would've said lol! but yea in my group of friends we understand that girlfriends come first... so if it were me I would get why you're mad.

brunettebelle · Answer

He was wrong for treating you like that but he does need friends, you should talk to him the next time he calls but there are times when you need a break and you just need to hang out with some friends.

beer3 · Answer

I think your a little bit right and wrong. He should be able to invite other friends over but I think he  should of made room for you to park. Moving his car away to give his friend and his girlfriend room to park.

BunnyToast · Answer

Dang... girls like you are what make guys avoid all us other girls like the plague.

Anonymous · Answer

He got there first so he gets spot.  Suck it up princess.

AllDay · Answer

I think you're upset that you were expecting him to save you a parking spot and he didn't.  You should talk to him about why he didn't save you the spot.

Belgie · Answer

Bros before hos. Your boyfriend knew exactly what he was doing.

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