There is nothing wrong with going out from time to time in my eyes no matter what age you are, but what needs to be the cut off age when it comes to going out during the week nights and weekends? I think that if you're married you should spend more alone time with your significant other than the combined group time.
Whether it's just going to bars to eat several nights a week and drinking multiple beers/drink OR even going to clubs...what age should you start slowing it down by? Does the age make a difference if you're married or not? Explain please :-)
Vote A Once you turn 25 you need to slow it down (single)
Vote B Once you turn 25 you need to slow it down (married)
Vote C Once you turn 30 you need to slow it down (single)
Vote D Once you turn 30 you need to slow it down (married)
I mainly asked because I'm 27 and I'm just not really up for all of that as much anymore and it could be depression or it could just be that I'm getting older and want to settle down even though I will still want to go out from time to time and even take my husband with me. I never want to be a boring couple lol I'd want to be the old couple dancing somewhere but I have a friend who NEVER spends alone time with her husband and is 25 almost 26. It's almost always group time at restaurant bars!
I'm single though and feel like I should be going more than my married friend...
I think you should slow down when you have people who are dependent upon you. If you are completely independent and doing your own thing, I don't see why you should have to slow down at all. Just enjoy yourself :)
I think that whether someone parties or not depends on the person.
Age doesn't matter so much. Sure, as a general rule - the older you are , the less likely you are to party, but there are still some old guys and girls that have plenty of energy and love a good time/party.
Being married will slow most people down (they won't go out as much, to parties, etc.) but there are those couples that will be party central!
So, yes - age and marriage do make a difference for most of us, but some still manage to be old and have kids AND party.
I meant option A. But, if by "partying" you mean basically living in clubs and getting hammered beyond recollection the day after, yeah by my age (24) that should definitely be slowed down. However, I think up until your 40s you can still go to bars and grab a drink and maybe even a club (depending on the club?). That is of course if you're single. If you're not, then you're still not too old but you should go with your spouse unless she's not able to or its a girls/guys night out type of thing.
I answered E. because I think that people should stop going as often to bars and partying when they have kids and have other pressing responsibilities. I have nothing against the 40-90 somethings enjoying themselves and reliving their youth, that's their choice.