Honestly just get over it. if your best friend or girlfriend did the same thing you would forget about it as well. people get mad its normal. Rather have someone shove me and yell or whatever then bottle things up or hide them. I'm sick of this view in todays world that Woman can steal,Hit,stab and kill men but if I guy whos in a bad mood with someone even pushes a woman its so bad.
Me and my girlfriend argue all the time. We have an agreement that if one of us hits the other we are allowed to hit back. And honestly it turned out for the best. we would argue tot he point that we are pushing or punching then we just start laughing and play fighting. OR turns into awesome sex afterward..
Its better to express yourself then to bottle things up til the point someone gets killed or suffers from a mental disorder due to bottling up years of stupid frustrations.
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Give him an inch, you may as well as give him a mile. He shoves you now, what's next? Guys who are that over possessive can turn out to be the type of extremely jealous types who make the news for shooting their girlfriend or beating her. You need to give this guy his walking papers. You are an attractive, young lady, and you do not need to put up with that. If you were my daughter, the guy would be in the hospital.
Considering, your profile, I bet his observations were legit...
Either way, you don't deserve to be pushed or shoved. I would tell him, if he ever did that again, it is over. Plain and simple.
However, maybe you should try talking to him about WHY he feels that way...and try stopping it and making him feel more secure...
You can not become the subject of physical reprimandings by a partner. He didn't like your behavior so he put you in your place PHYSICALLY. Are you his child to be disciplined?
Dump him.
break up with him. he did it once, he'll do it again. trust me.
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Break up with him or preparing for some inevitable abuse down the road. It always starts with shoving and pushing. He's a child with an inability to deal with his anger. That won't change anytime soon.
leave him, by the way you're very attractive and I also answered some of your other posts. I'm a black male (mixed actually) but you should try the interracial thing haha, if you're ready to be treated like a queen. I sent you a friend request :)
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It's most likely going to be a slippery slope from there. If you want to give him one more chance, fine but NO MORE than one chance.
If my boyfriend ever shoved or pushed me, I'd break up with him immediately. You most definitely do not deserve to be treated like that.
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