How do you respond when someone who blew you off finally reaches out to you?

Anonymous
So a girl that I've had a very hard time trying to build a relationship with recently blew me off. She and I had a fling before she had to move several states away. We stayed in touch for the next 3 months, very friendly. Then I went to visit her about a month ago and the attraction was still there. We seem to feel extremely comfortable around each other. Problems is she is there and I'm here. She moved for a job, but has yet to get it due to the fact she has failed her boards. She has done this 3times now. She did the first before her move, then again a couple of months later and now just last week. She is obviously disappointed in herself and stressed at what she's supposed to do with herself. The job they've held the previous 2 times but I'm not sure about now. I'm not sure because I haven't talked to her since her failure. I called the night of her finding out and she didn't answer but texted me after my call saying she wasn't in a good mood to talk because she had failed. I told her if there was anything I could do let me know, and she thanked me. I waited 4 days later, which was this Sunday and texted her, "hope you're OK. When you feel you can talk, give me a call." She said thanks and she was feeling a little better and would give me a call Mon or Tues. Well its late Tues and I have got no call. So now I am hurt by her blowing me off. I know she is going through a very tough time right now but I still don' t think that's a great reason to tell me one thing and not follow through, especially since I've been very supportive of her through all 3 of the failures. She is supposed to be home for Thansgiving, so I wanted to keep things good between us till then so we could meet up face to face, but now I don't know what to think.

I guess my question is how do I respond to her if she contacts me? I feel I should wait for her to reach out to me since she owes me the call but I don't know how I should act when she calls. I feel she should know I'm upset with her but I don't want to chew her out or attack her when she's going through a tough time. I am a very understanding person but don't want to be poorly treated, and I am sure there are good ways to deal with a situation like this but I am not familiar with any.
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Oh and I'd like advice on how to respond whether she sends a text or calls. Obviously I'd prefer to talk to her but if she texts me with an apology or an excuse I'd like to be ready too. Thanks all.
How do you respond when someone who blew you off finally reaches out to you?
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