I need help with crazy relationships!!! So confused....wanting something you can't have?
ok let me break it down for you... i am currently in a relationship for about a year and a half now...my boyfriend and I pretty much fight... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
Everyone, especially females, always want what they can't have.
I think you've already made up your mind about what to do with your guy friend.
If you haven't the answer is clear, but I do think you need to let him know how you feel he's treating you, and if you don't get any results, you should break it off.
What you'd have to do is build resentment. Explore each thing that you feel is a negative in your relationship, and think of them all together. Remember these things, and approach him with them. Based on his answer, either forgive and forget, or forget and let go.
If you feel unappreciatied, you'll never be happy.
I understand why the other guy is hesistant on leaving his girlfriends...
It kinda feeds from the line:
"Never leave the one you love, for someone you like, because the one you like will not leave the one they love."
Sometimes being single is for the best. So you will not have that heavy conscience about who your cheating on. About whos not treating you right. Your not married, let him go!
Also, remember if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you...
& I hope this helps!
A Loving Black Man
What Guys Said 3
lol ok so I'm a guy and I LOVE being single, I've been single for two years and for the most part it rocks...I can talk to, flirt, make out, make love to ANY girl that like me back...I don't have to hide things and I'm most of all FREE! so break up with the guy and just date around until the other "cooler" guy breaks up with his girlfriend or something.
What Girls Said 2
If your boyfriend doesn't make you happy, dump him. It's life. Harsh I know but true. You can wait for this other guy but enjoy being single in the process. Talk to anyone do what you want and not have to worry about a jealous boyfriend getting on your butt all the time. I had one of those types. Couldn't stand it.
First of all you need to leave your man... you can;t just stay with him because you don't want to be single and you wanna wait and see what happens with this other guy it is not fair to your bf. I think you should break up with him if you are really unhappy with him whether you have someone waiting for you or not when you get out of your relationship with him. and you're are right... there are millions of other men out there that are better at relationships and that would treat you better... life is too short to sell yourself short... even if you are single for a while it will give you a chance to date around (not sleep around) but date around with different guys and figure out what exactly you want.