yeah, I think pimpin' may have point. you're completely awesome and your friends don't understand why you aren't getting all the insanely hot guys who in turn will bring their insanely hot friends around so that everybody can have insanely hot boyfriends together =] lol. seriously, my friends are the same way with me. they drive themselves crazy trying to get you to find a guy because somewhere in along the line they've engraved in their minds that every girl wants a guy and if she's single, something isn't right with either the men or you.
they're just showing how much they love and worry about you in a strange, annoying, and yet somehow endearing way. tell them to shove it and they'll stop...for a while. they're your friends, so they're going to drive you crazy periodically until you get the guy they want you to have. that's just life for you.
my ex best friend made me feel the total opposite.. like I'm not good enough to have a boyfriend cause I'm praobly not "pretty enough" and she thought she was beautiful, got so jealous when a guy asked me out and not her she butted in my relationship which lead me to breaking up with him for her meddling in my relationship. I hate people who claim are your best friends but hurt you the most. I now feel I'm not good enough for any man to like me because my friend went behind my back saying "HOW DOES SHE GET A BOYFRIEND BEFORE US?!?!" (she was talking to another friend of mine behind my back) that seriously made me feel like shit, and now I feel like I don't deserve any guy :/
I think all women are raised to believe that we should want a man by our side, but that's not always the case. In high school, yeah I had crushes and stuff, but I never actually wanted a boyfriend. It just wasn't something I wanted to deal with at that time. I also was constantly questioned and harassed by my female friends. I suggest you just don't let it bother you too much. When you're ready to have a boyfriend, it will happen and you'll enjoy it. Seriously, young girls don't realize how much trouble relationships really are. I'd encourage you to stay away from guys for as long as possible. lol
most insecure girls don't know how to be happy without a boyfriend. one of my best friends defines happiness as having the perfect boyfriend. they don't understand that being single is a choice, and when you actually have self-esteem you don't need to depend on some one else to be happy. I'm not putting down girls that want boyfriends or that have boyfriends because they're all not like that, but a lot of girls are. I'm single by choice to (for the moment) and I like the freedom of being able to just go on dates and not be tied down to one person :)
sounds like your girl friends have commitment problems as well, you said they talk to a new guy every two weeks, that's not good
dont let people tell you what you should or should not be doing, its your life, if you really don't want one, then don't get one, youd be in a relationship for the wrong reason if you did
society tends to tell girls that they "just can't make it without a man in their life" that's wrong, their are plenty of successful single women out there, who don't want a boyfriend at the moment or at all for that matter. if you want to be successful without a bf, go ahead, more power to ya
and besides you're young, sounds like... you got all the time in the world, my dad didn't meet my mom till he was 25, so yeah...no rush, most high school relationships don't last anyway
because your probably so beautful every guy is buggign the hell outta your friends for them to hook you up with them and there sick and tired of it and just want you to accept one so guys will stop buggin them!
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Well I'm sure their doing it 'cause they care. Maby its 'cause they feel like your depressed, lonley, or just need someone to hold you and comfort you. Their just trying to make you happy. If you don't want a boyfriend, tell them so and explain to them, that your doin your thing fine by yourself. Tell them your mind ain't ready for a boyfriend, and that your not ready for all the emmotions that come along with the boyfriend. I'm sure they'll understand when you tell em and make sure their listening 100%
people were like that to me for a while saying I should look for a girl or that kind of thing. I just said naw don't realy want to right now. or it's not worth the effort becasue I don't have the money to take them out or some excuse like that.
just tell your friends you are currently happy being single and when you are ready for a boyfriend you'll start looking on your own time.
ps: they probably are just curious and don't mean to push the issue.
Just politely say no, not reason to become infuriated with it. They just want to help, no harm done. But the reality of it all, is that you don't need nor want help. Just casually shrug and laugh it off. Say your busy that week or lie and say he has a "flaw" when they describe him. No need to get angry with them.
i'm with you on that. I get pressured by my firneds. they're always trying to hook me up with some random guy as a date. one was into designing video games, one was a cop, another was also a cop lol and the others from university. so I know what you mean, some of my friends jsut want to be match makers.
I am sure that they are doing it because they care.
They are your friends so you should be able to talk to them. Just talk to them and tell them straight but in a nice way that you are happy with things as they are and when you are ready you will get a boyfriend. I am sure they will be fine, just be ohnest and open up to them.
just tell your girlfriends how you don't want a boyfriend right now. its nice just being single lot less stress
maybe they think by you having a boyfriend it could do you some good...
Do they have boyfriends?
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