Long distance boyfriend always talking about sex, but I want to talk about other things...
I don't even know how to start this but just to give some background info my boyfriend and I are from different countries, we whilst we were both on... Show More
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Kinda had this deal with my boyfriend; however I was totally fine with it. But after he started masturbating on the phone, he would near the beginning of the call, and then he would be set for the rest of the time, and would hardly talk about sex other than before he was "taken care of". If that is something you are comfortable with doing/having him do. And after a while his masturbating on the phone turned into an us thing (and that is fine by me!).
Its just my boyfriend would get so turned on by hearing my voice, and then thinking of me, and what he would want to do with me that he would get really turned on and had trouble focusing on other subjects. After I realized he/we could do that and he could concentrate on the conversation part much better, I realized what I needed to do. He doesn't ALWAYS have to, but just about once a day and he is good (unless we are really on the topic of sex allot that day).
Best of luck!
What Guys Said 1
Honestly, it could be that he's just really horny and that's all he can think about. Do you know if he masturbates? I assume he does -- can you flirt with him, perhaps even let him masturbate online, but then arrange a chat for later that day or the next day where he knows it won't be about sex?