Lately, it seems as though every guy who is in a relationship is suddenly drawn to me, and I have no idea what I'm doing?
When I was in my mid-teen years and in high school, on a few occasions there were boys who had girlfriends that would flirt with me all the time, I always just assumed that this was normal for teen guys. Lately, it's guys who have been with the same girl for multiple years who you would never even THINK of them cheating, that are suddenly so willing to cheat once we get talking.
The most recent case was with a guy who has been dating the same girl for almost 4 years. He had a party at his place and after a few drinks, we ended up kissing (well, making out), it has since happened two more times.
Basically what I'm asking is if I'm giving off the wrong signals, I have always had a fun, "party-girl" personality and do sometimes come off as flirty. I have never straight up flirted with a guy who was in a relationship, and would never make the first move on a guy who was in one. What is it about me that always attracts taken men?
When I was in my mid-teen years and in high school, on a few occasions there were boys who had girlfriends that would flirt with me all the time, I always just assumed that this was normal for teen guys. Lately, it's guys who have been with the same girl for multiple years who you would never even THINK of them cheating, that are suddenly so willing to cheat once we get talking.
The most recent case was with a guy who has been dating the same girl for almost 4 years. He had a party at his place and after a few drinks, we ended up kissing (well, making out), it has since happened two more times.
Basically what I'm asking is if I'm giving off the wrong signals, I have always had a fun, "party-girl" personality and do sometimes come off as flirty. I have never straight up flirted with a guy who was in a relationship, and would never make the first move on a guy who was in one. What is it about me that always attracts taken men?
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