My boyfriend plays really rough and once he actually hurt me. What do I do?

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iam eighteen and my boyfriend malcolm is twenty.

anyway he always plays too rough and gets way too agressive. he would always tell me how he likes a tough girl who can handle wrestling and play fighting because it turns him on.

i can handle it for a little bit but after a while it starts to hurt and I get exhausted and I don't want to play anymore. but he doesn't quit. he slams me on the bed, he puts me in headlocks, tackles,light punches, drags me off the couch by my ankles and stuff like that.

i tell him to stop and I don't want to anymore but he just laughs and doesn't stop and he keeps getting more rambunctious and agressive sometimes I think he's trying to hurt me.

the big problem happened a few nights ago where he was doing it again. and he wouldn't listen so I locked myself in his bedroom. he started knocking on the door saying he was done and he'd stop, but I told him I wasn't opening it. then he started to get mad and banging really hard on the door yelling and saying open the ******* door ! but by this time I was scared to open it because I know he has a really bad temper. then I started to cry and told him I was scared and he kept banging and yelling. then it got quiet and I heard him walk away..then he came back like 5 minutes later and he sounded a lot more calm and asked me to open it again so I did since he seemed cooled down but when I opened it he lunged at me and hit me and I fell down and he got on top of me and was holding me by the collar of my shirt and was yelling in my face.

after that I left and he started to text me non stop apologizing over and over. when I saw him again he keep saying sorry and that he loved me.

this happened a few nights ago and he hasn't brought it up anymore and he's acting like it never happened..

i don't really know what to do..i love him and I don't want to leave him. when I told my friend she insisted that I leave him..i feel a little trapped.i want to give him another chance but I read that when a guy hits you he usually does it again, and I'm afraid he might become abusive now.

i don't want to sound like a dumb girl but I do really love my boyfriend..i don't want to have to leave.but I really do want the play fighting and wrestling to stop, or at least be less rough.what do I do ?

(this might sound really dumb to you people, but please no rude comments. put yourself in my shoes)
My boyfriend plays really rough and once he actually hurt me. What do I do?
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