B/F asked me if I love him during sex?

[almondz]

During sex my boyfriend asked me if I love him not once, but two times! I hesitated but gave in and said yes. I do love him but I didn't want him to know that yet. This was the first time he has ever asked me that. If you read one of my previous questions, a few months ago he did 'let it slip' that he loved me. I'm not sure if the nervousness he felt was because he was scared to show his feelings or if he accidentally said it and didn't mean it. Where do I go from here? I have no plans to say it again to him until I know for sure his feelings for me and our relationship. We've been dating for 3 months now.

[Anonymous]

to be honest three months a good length time to say you love each other , although it is kind of obvious if you having sex with him that you love him is it not,

where do you go from here ...well continue as you were till which point you feel ready to say you love him its up to you to decide when nobody else ,your heart will tell you when I think , one of those moments will take place and you will feel like it , just keep enjoying your relationship , and as he asked you twice I'm sure he loves you and wants to know how you felt he meant it for sure

[almondz]

Great answer! The thing is when I asked him after he asked me, all he said was that he was 'falling in love with me'. That is different that actually loving the person. It kinda made me sad.

[Opinion Owner]

Nahh its not that different honestly ,i think if he's asking you that , he does love you and he's just testing the water to find out whether he's ready to throw himself out there with the whole 'i love you ' thing, I'm sure he does ,really,really really. he just asked that and thought oh c...p I have made it too obvious and so he told you that to keep you on your toes. Good Luck

[almondz]

WOW you took the words right out of his mouth. It's like he was waiting on me to make all the moves and with me trying to do the same thing, we were at a dead end. Neither of us wanted to put our foot forward. Thanks so much for your help!

[Opinion Owner]

Well I guess the only way forward is to both step forward together , glad to help , your very welcome.=)

[chanelxx]

if ur having sex with him I think you owe it to him to let him know you love him noone likes to feel used

[almondz]

I feel the same way toward him, I want him to say it also.

[lasrt]

I am in the same situation sister 😂 . I think he does love you 💕