Sometimes when we are out in public, and an attractive female passes, I noticed he full on stares. I know it's natural to look, and it's okay if it's just a glance or whatever, but I tend to notice he will just stare at the girl until she passes.. and will even ignore me if I'm trying to say something to him. Sometimes he even acts cocky. Which isn't like him.. because when it's just us he's very sweet and things are really good between us. We usually do have a happy relationship, it's just lately I've been picking up on these things and it's making me feel insecure.
Like he also talks about how hot some women are. We were watching a movie and there were hot girls and he made a comment about how hot they were. We were also talking about bands and he said something about how hot hayley williams is. And then recently he said that he wants to get a tattoo of a sexy naked girl on his calf. I told him he can do what he wants but I think it's trashy. Also he was talking on the phone with his friend the other day about a party and I was sitting right next to him and he asked if there were girls there. He also likes to work out all the time, he's really into fitness.. and always tells me how he wants to get really big and jacked and he's like, "so other girls will be jealous of you." I don't know why, but I was offended by that. It seems like he just wants other girls to be all over him.
I just don't know if I should be concerned. I know he loves me, and our relationship is great most of the time.. he always tells me how much he cares for me and everything, but these things have been bothering me a lot. I mean he never hides it from me, and he is always open about since he talks about it right in front of me.. but I just find it so rude. And it kinda hurts. It's like it's okay if you think that but keep those comments to yourself, ya know? It makes me feel like I'm not enough. If you love me, then why does it matter about other girls? I just don't know what to think. Am I wrong to be bothered by this stuff? Is it something to worry about?
Like he also talks about how hot some women are. We were watching a movie and there were hot girls and he made a comment about how hot they were. We were also talking about bands and he said something about how hot hayley williams is. And then recently he said that he wants to get a tattoo of a sexy naked girl on his calf. I told him he can do what he wants but I think it's trashy. Also he was talking on the phone with his friend the other day about a party and I was sitting right next to him and he asked if there were girls there. He also likes to work out all the time, he's really into fitness.. and always tells me how he wants to get really big and jacked and he's like, "so other girls will be jealous of you." I don't know why, but I was offended by that. It seems like he just wants other girls to be all over him.
I just don't know if I should be concerned. I know he loves me, and our relationship is great most of the time.. he always tells me how much he cares for me and everything, but these things have been bothering me a lot. I mean he never hides it from me, and he is always open about since he talks about it right in front of me.. but I just find it so rude. And it kinda hurts. It's like it's okay if you think that but keep those comments to yourself, ya know? It makes me feel like I'm not enough. If you love me, then why does it matter about other girls? I just don't know what to think. Am I wrong to be bothered by this stuff? Is it something to worry about?
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