He seems to be a little confused. He prob. nows that a relationship with you is risky in the sense that you guys have a history. Since you live near each other and your parents are friends he prob doesn't want to start something with you then figure out that's not what he wants. How did this whole tihng abt wanting to have sex with you get brought up? I'm surprised he was that blunt with it lol You also have to take into consideration other questions like
when his last girlfriend was?
does he talk about girls that he hooks up with?
It def. seems like he likes you but is scared to start something because he doesn't know how YOU feel. So without making it too obvious I would say something about hanging out alone together. As for the thing about liking to go down on a girl, and are the type that wants to please a girl more, its beucase they are either insecure abt themselves, their size, or performance(maybe he knos he will finish fast) Whatever you do don't hook up with him too soon, if you guys have been having these kinda convos then the tension has prob been building, but you shouldnt jump into it...so hang out with him alone, see if that connection is there when you two are alone, and take it one day at a time =) good luck
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The point is do you like him or not? Life is short so just go straight to the point. Don't be a player, I read your story and it gave me such a headach. Ask your self what you really want, like him then don't text him back till he lays all his cards out. Don't like him get busy with something else. You 25? Gosh, I'm 26 but I feel like I'm much more older. One more time, life is short, don't get yourself caught up in silly confusing sittuation. Be goal oriented, set it and go for it... there is no time to waste girl.
its as simple as this. If you like him, tell him you like him. If you don't like him, continue with your texting and let him know its not going to amount to anything more.
Look mainly this guy is COMPLETELY inexperienced with girls. He needs to be an MAN and stop texting you all day first of all. (Are you attracted to this type of semi-needy behavior?) He needs to CALL you and say "hey listen I'm free tomorrow afternoon, let's grab some dinner, and then I have a little adventure in store for you (where he takes you to the park and blow bubbles together or something". Heck I've gotten laid by just doing that so if he's wanting sex he's going to need to work for it instead of texting you "hey let's f***" (GOD I hated when I used to do that because it OBVIOUSLY never worked). His words mean nothing, it's his ACTIONS that should show you what type of guy he is. Lame-o. Weird. Mysterious. Interesting Guy. Laid back Man. Confident Man. Sex-worthy Man. I think he barely knows who he is. Sooo...
If you like this guy enough then ask HIM on a date (because he's not getting any hints so sometimes we need a little push). But if not, then just stay friends with him and get a man who can actually hang out with you, explore life, kiss you, blah blah blah...
Most likely he is feeding you a line of crap that he feels will lead to getting in your pants. Guys tell girls what we think they want to hear. Guys can't be honest with girls or the species would probably die out from no sex. It is all a big game,played by both sexes, with different motives. When it works out their is sex and relationship and the species marches on.
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Well he sounds like he just doesn't want to be tied down..but does enjoy your company.. I think the reason he mentions he doesn't want a relationship is because he doesn't want you getting your hopes up thinkin he wants to be with you and end up hurting you. His feelings might change later on, but for now it doesn't seem like he wants a relationship.
He's just a flirtatious guy and if he's talking about sex with you then he might want to be friends with benefits.hmm.. this doesn't sound too good. You can either stop texting him back and see what he says and how he feels about it. or mention that your excited about your plans tonight to go on a date..and don't answer any texts the whole night and see what he says.
ok hun, you just said it yourself that he asked to have sex with you right? basically he just wants sex and that's it. and + he did say that he doesn't want a relationship. so he doesn't want one. he's going to be missing out on a cool girl like you , don't spend ur time on idiot guys like him who don't no what they want.
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