Attraction isn't a choice. You can't create more "logic" in order to change his mind because it's not his logical mind that's the problem... it's how he FEELS about you that's the problem.
Changing someone's mood isn't that hard, but once someone's concluded how they FEEL about you, it's pretty much done.
Don't change who you are or who you're being unless you're being someone who's hurting others... especially not because of one dude who's not into you.
There's nothing as good at helping a girl forget a guy as meeting someone new worth getting to know. Go meet someone else asap! You're worth it.
~ Robby
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It might be that it's your differences that make the relationship work the way it does. It may be easier to show him that you already have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and that "dating" shouldn't change what is already there. Or you could go sneaky and just get him to do "date" things with you and before you know it, you both will be "dating".
It kinda ssounds to be like he doesn't want to commit and is just using that as a coverup reason as he knows that it can in fact be a legit reasons. This is typical I don't want to commit behavior and sadly when it comes to people who don't want to commit you can't change that no matter what. He should want to be with you because he truly wants to, not because you tried your best tricks to get him to like you in a serious way.
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It is always a mistake to try and change people to suit your own needs. Changing another person is a bit like climbing a Himalaya, a slow gruelling challenge with cliffs you can fall off of. If you want to change someone, try changing yourself, even though I don't completely recommend this either. If you compromise too much you will be nowhere...
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