Girl with boyfriend, touching me a lot.....

[Anonymous]

This girl who I have a crush on has been touching me a lot more these pass several months. She has a boyfriend and she doesn't do this with any other guys besides me. She runs her fingers up and down my chest, caresses my back, arms, thigh, touches shoulders/arms/thighs and just generally stand as close to me as possible (usually always touching).

She throws all the signals in the book at me. Is there anyway she is just playing games because she want attention, or does she really like me and want me to do something about it? Should I make a move?

[Cantremember]

Have you thought this through? Lets say she does like you that way and you two end up together. Do you really want to be with a girl that does that behind her boyfriends back? What would keep her from doing the same to you?

The other (more likely IMHO) scenario is that you are her d*** under glass.

So I would keep my distance to be honest. If you want to be with her, it has to be clear that she has to end things properly first before she can be with you. And if she just wants the attention and that is getting to you or giving you false hope, you should stay clear as well.

So unless you are happy with status quo, you need to change something and not encourage this.

[Spirit156]

i agree with you on this, best thing to do here is to see what she does when her boyfriend is around

[swiftsaver602]

^great answer!