If you told him he spends too much, what if he told you back that you are too materialistic to have counted it all?
I'm not trolling you or being facetious here; I'm pointing out there is a possibility he relates to material things in an entirely different way than you relate to them, perhaps because he has more money or always had more money and means less to him.
I have had this experience too, from your perspective. Money is a big thing, it doesn't grow on trees, and I measured it carefully and it only came slowly through hard work. One day I met a girl who really threw it around and would give me things that made me say "Gosh, this is SO expensive! You shouldn't have!"
I learned later she came from a very upper class family, complete with servants and the like, and my gratitude was worth more to her than the cost amount of the present, and that is really just how she thought.
I don't know anything about your boyfriend, but consider your situation carefully. He could be a playboy who throws his money away, but on the other hand, it sounds from yoru description that he works pretty hard for it and understands the value of it. Maybe he feels you are worth it?
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Talk to him.
My guess is its the most natural way for him to show love. But its a bad habit.
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Just be faithful to him and break up with him first if you want to kiss someone else... Treat him with respect and concern and it will all be worth it to him... He will enjoy it:)
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