My boyfriend is secretive about our relationship. Is this something to worry about?
My boyfriend and I started dating 5 weeks ago and he's being to secretive about it. I mean, he doesn't even want me to post anything on his Facebook... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
So you just started dating and you're already boyfriend/girlfirend? Are you sure? Has it been clearly stated or are you assuming this to be the case?All I can tell you is that if I were him I'd want to take things relatively slow as it naturally transitions from a year of being friends to an actual relationship. Not because I doubted that it would go there, I just think that the worst thing you can do is rush it. Being someone's girlfriend or boyfriend doesn't just happen, it's a conversation where both people walk away having no question about the status of things. If you haven't had that, you're not his girlfriend and he's not your boyfriend. And 5 weeks is, to me, not enough time to have that conversation. Give it at least a total of 2 months.As to the Facebook stuff, some people are less active on there with the people they care about the most. I have a close friend like that. She says that she knows I know we're good so she focuses more on the friends who she knows need more attention in order to feel OK with the friendship.When in doubt: ask. No ultimatum, especially not after 5 weeks, but it's OK to ask these questions in a clam, rational way. It's a valid question and you should expect a valid response. If you don't get one, however, you're free to react accordingly.
What Guys Said 5
Any man who is keeping you a secret isn't much of a man at all. Ultimatum! Tyra says it's okay.
He is talking to another girl, or is trying to, and doesn't want her to see he is in a relationship. He is a cheating back stabbing player, leave him
Hi dear..If you truly love him, he ain't fit for ya.Find someone like me :P good guys are still alive.
Kick him to the curb.
What Girls Said 1
Yeah, something seems wrong there hun. =/