Why do I love tall men so much? Why?

[Anonymous]

Do any other girls feel like this? A cute, good looking guy is just much hotter tall than he is short. I don't even think its the popular "protective feel" for me. Maybe a little bit, but not much. Its just hot. It just looks reallllyyy good. All my bfs have been tall as well, except for one, he was like 5'10, which is taller than I am but not as tall as my other boyfriends. most of them have been in the 6'0-6'5 range. I think I have a tall guy fetish lol seriously I like them way too much, considering I'm not tall myself. I think its an opposites attract thing for me. I'm not sure but I love them :)

What do you all like? tall guys? short guys? tall girls? short girls?

[TwistedLogic]

Why do you love something? That is a ridiculous question. Love is a feeling, same as anger, trust, enthusiasm, belief, and what have you... Feelings do not have a reason behind them, even though we try to justify them. Reason, logic and intellect can't be applied to feelings. You can't say that trusting someone is logical, or following a certain religion is rational, etc...

Consider this example; A woman walks into a bar, where my friend and I are having a drink. My friend immediately looks at me and says "Wow, look man! There's a gorgeous woman sitting next to us", I look at her, and I don't see anything pretty in her, so I disagree with him. No matter how hard we would try to change one another's opinion, we will never succeed. Similarly, trying to explain why you prefer tall men over short men is just a waste of time.

I have no preference for height, as long as she's not extremely tall or extremely short. :)

[Asker]

I disagree with that. if no feelings can be explained as having a reason or cause behind them, then psychology, biochemistry, and a few areas of medical science are completely pointless and should be done away with. but you're entitled to your opinions though. its all good, I'm not here to debate today. just adding my tidbit :)

[TwistedLogic]

No, I am not entitled to my opinions. Just because it is my opinion, it doesn't mean it is correct.

Your argument has a very valid point. However, I will not respond to it due to your explicit request.

Keep well. :)

[Asker]

youre not entitled to your own opinions?

thanks, love. cheers :)

[Konnour]

I don't know, but being a tall guy myself it's definitely a good thing!

What do I like? I have no preference in height - it doesn't matter to me whether the girl is short or tall, it's very unimportant factor to me, of course with the only exception that she have to be shorter than me, but basically all girls are shorter than 6"1

[Anonymous]

I do think that taller guys look better too.

I was watching Supernatural the other day and noticed how short Jensen Ackles looked near Jared Padalecki, so I googled him and it turned out he's 6'0 which is tall! I googled Jared and he is 6'4. Still Jensen looked like a potato near him, lol, Jared looked so much more attractive.

Definitely, yes, taller guys are much more attractive to me.

[Asker]

jared is a cutie and yes very tall. :) I don't watch supernatural but he played dean in gilmore girls and I used to watch that all the time. cute cute cutie

[UberTroll]

Lol yeah Jared really is a Moose! I felt like a midget standing next to him XD

[Asker]

you stood next to him? omg. I would climb that like a tree. yums. P:

[UberTroll]

Yeah I got caught in the middle of a pinching war between him and Misha too. Ahhh best moment of my life =P

[xxyz123]

Its true that height adds to a guy's hotness, or some tall guys who are attractive would probably be ugly if they were not tall.

although personally, I find myself attracted to shorter guys, I'm short. not super short, but 5"8-5"10 is usually what I end up with

[Asker]

idk, I guess for some people that's true, but face is really important to me. I've never dated a tall guy who wouldn't also be cute to me if he were short. and I've seen tall guys who I find unattractive so...*shrug* idk.

how short are you?

[xxyz123]

5"2

[UberTroll]

I used to be into tall guys, not over 6'2" though since I'd feel like a dwarf lol. But I went through a transformation about two years ago and realized I actually liked guys around 5'6" better =P

[Asker]

well, good for you. more for me :D

how tall are you?

and I used to love trolls! :)

[UberTroll]

Lol yeah those little dolls were cool. I'm only 5'3"

[nwgrl]

I prefer taller men because I'm 5'8. Doesn't mean I won't find a shorter man attractive but I'm more comfortable dating guys who are taller and have more body mass than myself.

[Twincapersred]

Word- I don't want to look more manly than my guy- he's gotta be taller and broader

[Asker]

aw, I think its cute sometimes when the girl is tall and the guy is a bit shorter. I respect your preference though :)

im only 5'4, so I don't have the same concerns, but it just feels really nice with tall guys and I like the look.

[justme20]

tall guys are the hottest guys ever! I like them 6'3 and up. the last 2 guys I was talking to were 6'4 and 6'6 and the guy I'm currently with is the lowest I will go at 6'2.

[kholland65]

Jesus you must be dating basketball players if 6'2 is the lowest you will go. That just about excludes 99% of the male population.

[Asker]

there are a ton of very tall guys who are not athletes lol also overall percentage of the population means nothing to individual people. some areas of the country, even some countries actually, have much higher local percentages of tall men compared to other states, regions, or countries. just saying...

i like the early 6 feets but I agree, 6'3/6'4 is kind of perfect. theyre extra tall :D

There is a point where its just too much for me though, like 6'8 or something which you rarely ever see lol

[PoeticNinja]

The guys I've been with and liked in the past have ranged around 5'10"-6'3".

Although, I find many short guys very attractive than taller ones. 5'6"-5'8"..

It's nice to have a guy who's taller than you when wearing heels but then again, it's hot when the guy is a tad shorter. xD

[3336PS]

I am only 5 ft. not hard to meet guys that are taller than me. I can say that I am more attracted to tall guys. my partner is 6'2...

[Team_link]

I'm 5'8 😥

[BlueSJ]

I don't care because I'm sure no guy is shorter than me. lol xD

After all, the guy isn't with his height but with his brains, works and good manners. ^_^

[Asker]

how tall are you?

[BlueSJ]

*whispering* 5 feet! xD lol

[Asker]

aw that's a cute height. I know that's probably annoying when people say that short is cute but it is :)

[BlueSJ]

Lol no it's okay :) ,

But some people said I look small/weak or something like that.

Not everybody likes short girls lol. xD

[BlueSJ]

Thank you dear! ^__^

[Asker]

yeah heightism is an actual thing. taller people are seen as more competent, independent, able, respected. but you can always prove people wrong. we all can. midgets unite! :D

i don't even know if most people would consider me short. tall people will, but I don't know I'm 5'4 and while it is shorter, its also average height in the u.s. for women.

np. I think short girls are cute. :)

[BlueSJ]

Awww you're tall girl, at least in my point of view lol!

Yeah it's funny. They all think I'm this delicate small girl who depends on others to protect her, do the hard stuff and etc. lol. But it's fun when you prove for them you are not lol.

It's funny when you teach people a good lesson. ^_^

[calialltheway1993]

I love tall men too!

I'm already tall myself, which is why I want someone taller than me.

[Team_link]

I'm 5'8 😥

[Elisa78]

its gender dimorphism according to which we (females) love guy who is much taller as he is stronger even without much muscles on can protect us better (this controversial cause guys literally are ready to take bullet for their loved ones) it's makes us feel more feminine
Personally tall guys make me feel more feminine that's why I love it though I have no height preferences personally

[nandyme]

I like tall guys ~ at least 3-4 inches taller than me which is about 5'11 or 6. Usually I'm attracted 2 d height 6'3 lol :p

[BlueSJ]

6'3?! It's a tree! O_o"

[Asker]

oh you're tall missy! my parents thought I was going to be tall but that didn't happen. lol

and yes I'm a fan of that height :)

[Anonymous]

Hence the reason I'm not swimming in women, even though I am super attractive, have excellent fashion, am popular as hell, and have loads of money and fame, and good game. No, I'm not arrogant, just proving a point. If I was 6ft tall I would be beating women off of me with a stick.

[Asker]

I don't buy that. I have too many guy friends who get attention from women. and you didn't say you were good looking so... all the height in the world won't help you if you just aren't attractive, I'm sorry to say. and I thought the test of "good game" was if you were successful with women? if you try to have good game but get no love, doesn't that mean that your game has failed? I'm no expert in this nonsense but I'm just saying.

[Asker]

My own brother is 5'7 and he doesn't have loads of money or "excellent fashion" and he sleeps around way too much. I have friends who are the same height who are the same way. One of my associates from school sleeps around and he's barely taller than I am, he's like 5'5 or 5'6 maybe. One of the most attractive guys at my school last year was around 5'6/5'7 and my friends and I all liked him. reality doesn't match up. you're probably just ugly or you have bad social skills, unattractive somehow.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok I said, I'm attractive, and all those guys you listed are far taller than me, let's put it that way.

[Asker]

Well then you must be abnormally short, which isn't an issue most guys have to deal with. So, your problem isn't in not being 6'0, but in not being a normal height for a man to begin with. At least not in the western world. How short are you? If 5'6 is "far taller" than you are, then you must be a little person? that's only 2 inches taller than I am.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm 5'4. Generally speaking that doesn't sound that bad, but I know for a fact it puts me in the 1% for male height. In other words 99/100 men are taller than me. There are plenty of girl who are shorter than me, but even they still want guys who are borderline 6ft. Being short is like being fat. Girl just glaze over me even though I so much going for me. I get told I'm attractive, girls tells their BF's to dress like me, I work out and people say I'm ripped, I play in a band, I'm respectful,

[Opinion Owner]

I'm smart, have a good career and lots of money, I have lots of friends and am very popular, and very social and know how to talk to women. On paper I'm the perfect BF, and the few GF's I've had have recognized that. But I know that most women don't even give me the time of day because they don't take me seriously because of my height. They just glaze over me and date my friends who are a ft taller, dress like slobs, have no job, and have beer bellies.

[Asker]

Its you being abnormally short then, I was right. well, I'm sure you'll find someone, someday. Yes, many people get passed up for being less attractive in one way or another. Just learn to deal with it I guess, if you haven't already. I personally don't think short guys who are "ripped" are attractive. They end up looking way too stocky ad stumpy, but that's just my opinion. I'm sure some people like that and if you do, more power to ya.

[Asker]

So you have had gfs before? So then your real problem is that you're not a star player? the issue isn't that NO woman ever likes you, because clearly some have if youve had more than one girlfriend in the past, its that you don't have 300 girls a day trying to get with you? lmao. okay.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm 24 years old and I've had 5. most where in high school and lasted a few weeks so I wouldn't even call them a relationship. I've had one relationship that lasted more than a month and it was only 6 months. I'm going by my success rate. Given the amount of women I come across, and the amount I get rejected by, its far more than I would like. I honestly believe my game is good. Shit I'm the one who coaches my friends on how to get girls and it works.

[Asker]

i thought you were going by how attracted women were to you? a lot of guys get a lot of action but never have long relationships. how long a relationship lasts could definitely be more about your personality, if the amount of women interested in you isn't about your personality already. I still don't see how you can say you have good game if hardly any girls like you but okay...thats like saying "everyone wants to be my friend" while sitting by yourself at lunch every day.

[Asker]

Maybe having good game is the issue? Because that phrase alone makes me think you're not genuine or a real person, or someone many girls would even be attracted to. don't get me wrong, a lot of girls will fall for "good game" but maybe those girls are also looking for a physical package to back up that kind of approach as well. Maybe you need to try less and try a different approach so that someone will be getting to know who you are, instead of getting to know your "game."

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me I don't run game like a PUA. I just know how to talk to women without looking like a dweeb. Girls and guys all the time tell me how well liked I am and how "amazing" of a person I am. I'm the guy who is always there for people, has never created enemies, doesn't show off, and likes to have a good time. I'm smart and people come to me for advice. I have diverse interests, good values, and a good career. There is seriously nothing not to like, other than the fact that I'm short as hell.

[Kloeelizabeth]

Same girl!!! I have like a huge tall guy fetish they're just hot af. It makes a guy 1000x more attractive if he's 6'0 and up

[Anonymous]

Haha I'm the same with short girls :) xD Everyone has their own preferences? :)

[Nijababe99]

duh Lol Its Always Been Tall Dark And handsom ;)

[MrEM4N]

Get ready for the hate mail.

[RedThread]

Yeah tall guys for the win!

[Moloch]

Feeling of being 'protected.'

[Thatsamazing]

Correct.

[heretoexpress]

I am 6'5 in case you wanted to know.

[alsalman007]

6feet 1inch

[Anonymous]

Thus, the reason why I hate women.

[Asker]

you hate women because we have preferences? well, that's rational.